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Hello again, Classmates. Let me share some updates from our far-flung WesFriends.

Dana Sachs has a new book coming out this year (All Else Failed: The Unlikely Volunteers at the Heart of the Migrant Aid Crisis, published by Bellevue Literary Press).    Much of her research was done while working with Humanity Now, visiting relief teams in Greece. (Her editor Erika Goldman ’81 also went to Wesleyan). Her travels have allowed her to cross paths with a number of friends, and she hopes to make it to reunion next year.

In other book news, Parul Kapur Hinzen will publish her novel Inside the Mirror, about twin sisters who aspire to become artists in 1950s India, to be published by University of Nebraska Press in early 2024. She won the 2022 AWP (Association of Writers and Writing Programs) Prize, judged by Brandon Hobson. The novel touches on the art of Bharata Natyam, whom Parul studied at Wesleyan. She lives in Atlanta with her husband and son, after having spent a few years in Wallingford, Connecticut, among horses and old apple orchards.

Susie Kang Sharpe follows up on her November notes with an update that she has recently been accepted as a TEDx speaker and will deliver her speech at the University of Washington (Seattle) in April 2023 (which will already have occurred by the time you receive this).

Sally Bromage Suhr had a lot of news for us last time and wrote in again to report on her minireunion luncheon with Tammy Kahn and Liz Engelberg on a recent NYC trip.    She did not provide a picture, assuring us that the three of them are unchanged from their Wesleyan days.

Michael (Misi) Polgar provides more detail on his Open Educational Resource (OER) on the Holocaust, which we first heard about last August. It is associated with the Sh’ma Project and is free online at https://psu.pb.unizin.org/holocaust3rs/.

It is my sad duty to report the death of our classmate, Christopher Romeo, who passed on March 8. We learned of this from his sister, Susan Romeo Malestein ’87. His obituary at dignitymemorial.com speaks of his time at Wesleyan and the New England School of Law; of his love of fishing, trivia, and the Red Sox; and of his distinguished community service career on the Board of Selectmen and Board of Tax Assessors in Westford, Massachusetts.

I have some personal news of some import. My son Garrick having waited, with great frustration, through the pandemic for a chance to get his life started, has finally spread his wings. I am thrilled that he is now in Taiwan (Taoyuan City) teaching English. Mostly we get pictures of what he is eating.

Finally, I will say again how much I have enjoyed being class secretary for the last 10 years but will welcome a volunteer for the passing of the baton. If interested in details, email me at the usual place.

Until next time,

Michael

Hello, Classmates!  Here is news from our far-flung alumni.

From Dana Safran, I got a lengthy, multicharacter report. Dana, Deb Kacanek, Andrea Roman, and Carol Einhorn met on the beautiful North Fork of Long Island this summer to celebrate four decades of friendship and were feeling pretty damn sensational at 60.

Debhas been enjoying 60th celebrations with Wesleyan friends while obnoxiously reminding them that she has yet to reach that milestone (at least when this update was sent to me some months back).  When she is not sluggishly watching a Marvel movie with her husband Roger, 11-year-old daughter Sasha, and dog Luna in Jamaica Plain, she is a social epidemiologist at Harvard T. H. Chan School of Public Health where she leads research on violence and the health of women who are living with (or who are at risk for) HIV in the U.S. and southern Africa.

Andrea lives with her husband Tom in Newton, Massachusetts, still living in the same house where they brought up their three kids, who are now in their 20s and off and about. For work, Andrea chairs the board of her family’s media company, the Taunton Press, Inc.

Danareports that she and her husband Alan are now living it up as empty nesters with part-time residence in Dupont Circle (D.C.) and part time in Newton, Massachusetts, because of Dana’s D.C.–based job as CEO of the National Quality Forum.  Their three adult kids are living in LA, D.C., and Brooklyn. Their adopted labrador, Colbie (age eight) happily transitions with Dana and Alan between life in D.C. and Massachusetts.

After stints as a performing singer-songwriter, music journalist, and fundraiser for music education, Carol now serves as director of Institutional Advancement at Library of America, a nonprofit dedicated to publishing and celebrating the canon of great American writing. She and her teenage son live in Brooklyn, delightfully close to Prospect Park, the Botanic Gardens, farmers’ markets, and food trucks.

Sally Bromage Suhr and her husband Scott both retired in August and took a lovely two-week trip to France. While in Paris they attended an evening concert at Sainte-Chapelle, and as they were seated in this fairly intimate setting, the two groups around them were in a buzz discovering they were both Wesleyan grads! They enjoyed the concert and visiting with Owen Bennion ’09 and Richard (Dick) Emerson ’68.  Not only was Dick a fellow Wes grad, but he grew up in Florham Park, New Jersey, as did Sally, and that his roommate at Wesleyan was her father’s cousin, Bill Bromage ’68! Petit monde!

Sadly, her father, Edward Bromage ’59, passed away in September. They always enjoyed sharing an alma mater, 25 years apart. While planning his memorial service, she got to catch up with some of his Delta Tau fraternity brothers and their families. Some of her father’s best tales were about his fraternity life, and Sally is glad he got to share his stories of being a bit of a rascal with his grandchildren!

Jim McGonagle sends congratulations to Bob Barringer and Pat Costello on their election to the Wesleyan Football 1980s All-Decade Team. The All-Decade Team was honored with a dinner and induction ceremony on November 3rd, then recognized again at halftime of the Wesleyan-Williams Homecoming football game the next day. Caught up with other class of 1984 members including Joel Armijo, Scott Spague, and Jackie Gilson Marraffa, who was there with her son Nick ’18 to accept the All-Decade Award for her late husband, Bob Marraffa ’82.

Susie Kang Sharpe had an exhibit in Madrid and another successful show in Paris in October. She also won two top awards at international art competitions this fall, while maintaining a busy medical practice. Her story as a physician-artist has been featured in 20-plus magazines, TV, and podcasts. You can check out her artwork at https://www.susiesharpe.net. She ships worldwide, and her proceeds go to her philanthropic work.

Michael Lewyn has had a pretty unexciting year, but continues to teach at Touro Law Center, lives in Manhattan, and contributes the occasional scholarly article, and blogs at marketurbanism.com.

Finally, let me take a personal note and observe that I will be coming up on my 10th anniversary of becoming class secretary. It is getting to be time to pass the baton to another classmate and let someone else have the pleasure of hearing from everyone. If you are interested in chatting about the post, please contact me at the email below.

Until next time,

Michael

Hello, Classmates!

Jim McGonagle submitted news just a little too late for the last outing. Bob Barringer was inducted into the Wesleyan Baseball Wall of Fame along with four others during a ceremony on Andrus Field on Saturday, April 30, 2022. He was recognized for his baseball achievements during his four years as an “offensive force” for the Cardinals.  Joining Bob and his family were 1984 classmates Steve Peck, Joel Armijo, Scott Sprague, as well as Jim; along with Todd Mogren ’83, Ken Janik ’85, Tony Rella ’86, Charlie Galland ’86, Ken Johnson ’86, Tim Sullivan ’87, and Michael Cooper ’87.

Stephanie Fleischmann also wrote just past the wire to give news of her opera collaboration with composer Christopher Cerrone, In a Grove. The opera is adapted from Ryunosuke Akutagawa’s story and created in collaboration with director Mary Birnbaum.   Originally commissioned by LA Opera, the Pittsburgh Opera production is available for streaming on YouTube.

Laura Simon thinks it is crazy how old we are all getting. She is (currently and still) the president of the Connecticut Wildlife Rehabilitators Association and does consulting work helping suburban/urban communities resolve wildlife issues and learn to coexist.   The current hot topic is black bears, as they are popping up in backyards throughout the state.

Michael (Misi) Polgar is coediting an open educational resource (OER) on the Holocaust. I am happy to pass along any messages to Misi if you want to know more about this project.

David Knudsen has recently launched Everything Set Inc., a start-up in the East Bay (with help from other Wes alums). His company, which is deep into beta testing, uses advanced AI on crowd-sourced real-time data to keep smart devices safe and secure.     His company website is everythingset.com, where you can get information about their Early Access program.

Mark Randles recently attended the wedding of Andy Peretz in Delray Beach, Florida, where he saw Jay and Gail Farris. Mark says it was the best wedding band he had ever seen, and Andy sat in with them on the drums (with wife Stephanie on cowbell). Mark also went to Kansas City and met up with James Glickman, Michael Bailit, David Booker, Hans Schweiger, and Bill Barry to enjoy a weekend of baseball games and museums. This Wes group has been meeting for 21 years at this point—they are headed to Toronto next year.

Paul Landau has a new book, Spear: Mandela and the Revolutionaries, which he has been working on for 12 years. His BA thesis (with Jeff Butler) was on U.S. policy in South Africa, so this book is a culmination of his study; Paul is a full professor at the University of Maryland, teaching the history of Africa, masked. His wife Emily teaches high school at Georgetown Day School (where Ketanji Brown Jackson is on the board).  Daughter Zoe is taking a year off from Oberlin, and Penelope is a junior counselor at Brown Ledge Camp this summer.

Paul lives a few blocks from the Capitol and had a front-row seat for the events of January 6. He lives on a pleasant and tree-lined street, but is in close proximity to homelessness, addiction, shootings, and other systemic municipal problems stemming from structural disinterest and federal neglect of the District. It is not lost on him that he is “getting ready again to teach about shantytowns, race, the role of self-told narratives in mobilizing, strong drink, the contest for public space, and White nationalism in apartheid South Africa.”

Susie Kang Sharpe is thrilled to have another exhibit of her artwork in Europe. This time it’s in Madrid, Spain. She ships her art to her fans to worldwide. Her work can be viewed: https://www.susiesharpe.net. She still enjoys being a physician and recently switched from traditional internal medicine practice to telemedicine. She loves the flexibility it provides. She is a frequent guest of many podcasts.

Maria Mead has been living in Santa Cruz, California, for the past 21 years. She is married and has two adult kids, who also live in California. She is a semiretired family practice physician—now busy with public health, trying to save our democracy, and reading and traveling as much as she can. Recently she got together with Jonathan Schwartz ’87 and Sophie Ziegler ’85, Heidi Wasch and Bob Leversee, and Veronica Masterson ’85. She is eager to hear from people visiting the Bay Area and can be reached at mariamead@gmail.com (and I have permission to forward her phone to other alums).

Kristin Kellom Damon continues to live in the beautiful Connecticut River Valley within the tri-state area of Massachusetts, Vermont, and New Hampshire. She has officially retired from Northfield Mount Hermon where she worked for nearly three decades serving in a variety of roles, most recently as director of alumni and donor relations within the Advancement Office. She is relishing the extra time with family, especially being with her two sons as they launch their lives in college and beyond. In this particularly unsettled world, she increasingly appreciates the little things (that aren’t so little).

Finally, Molly (Willey) Tierney announces that she is a “grandma,” and welcomes baby boy Asher born to her daughter in May 2022.

Until next time.

Hello, Classmates!

Aaron Gershenberg has transitioned to Angel and Impact Investing, based in Park City, Utah, leaving Silicon Valley Bank (and SVB Capital) behind after 23 years. (He continues on as founding partner emeritus for SVB.)  He is looking forward to spending more time in Africa and Israel, and to looking for sustainable economic development models.

Michael Llewyn had an exciting fall running for borough president of Manhattan on the Libertarian Party line (despite not being a registered Libertarian).  He got 1.8% of the vote, focusing on “less zoning, more housing, lower rents.” You can find “Manhattan Borough President General Election Debate” on YouTube.  In and around the campaign, Michael got married in 2019 and lives in midtown Manhattan; he teaches at Touro Law Center, and blogs about land use issues at planetizen.com and marketurbanism.com. You can find his law review articles at http://works.bepress.com/lewyn.

Shawn Dove, who felt (like so many of us) that 2021 was an “intermission,” is facing the third act of his life with our shared milestone birthday. His major takeaway from the pandemic is to “stop lamenting my irretrievable and start loving my future self.”  “Sage”-ing instead of “age”-ing.  He has  sunsetted the not-for-profit Campaign for Black Male Achievement, and has launched the Corporation for Black Male Achievement—a publishing and consulting firm that curates “community building and leadership development engagements that elevate stories of loving, learning and leading Black men and boys.”   His book, co-authored with Nick Chiles (a Yalie, but all is forgiven), I Too Am America: On Loving and Leading Black Men & Boys was published at the beginning of the year. And he has started as managing partner of venture philanthropy firm New Profit. The firm’s mission is “investing in breakthrough social entrepreneurs by employing the rigor of venture capital and the humanity of the nonprofit sector. Excited about the focus of supporting Black and Brown social entrepreneurs.”

Ophelia Papoulas threw herself a rockin’ in-person party for her milestone birthday (in the lull between delta and omicron), and she appreciates her excellent timing. She adores her career in molecular research, which has allowed her to see real people in the lab every day.  We have mentioned Ophelia’s needlework-for-charity endeavor (dundysisters.com), which she runs with her sister Bettina; they have been donating proceeds of their work to mental health charities, as COVID has made needs in this arena skyrocket. On the home front, her son has turned 18, and after battling ADHD, OCD, and other mental demons, he has started at community college and is doing well.  She continues to see her longtime boyfriend, local musician/bandleader and Samsung recruiter David Cornell Hurd. She continues to care for her aging mother-in-law, whose dementia has worsened. She will be found around and about Austin, Texas (aka Musk-ville or Texla).

Until next time.

Hello, Classmates!

Gail Farris and her husband, Jay, became grandparents at the end of March, when daughter Kim Farris Buckley ’14 gave birth to baby boy Killian. Killian already has Wes swag and with luck will be rolling down Foss Hill at future reunions.

Arthur Haubenstock is moving back to Washington, D.C., with his wife Nidhi, and their nearly two-year-old daughter. He is taking a job as a vice president in Regulatory Law with Bloom Energy, which has a national and international focus, enabling deployment of alternative energy solutions and helping develop hydrogen replacements for fossil fuel–fired power generation. Their hearts go out to all those who have endured tragedies during the pandemic.

John Tauxe has retired from his part ownership in Neptune and Company, which specializes in environmental decision-making support. Now under his own shingle, Tauxian Solutions, he will continue to consult internationally in radioactive waste management and environmental risk modeling. John majored in Earth science, and seriously considered the advice of Professor Jelle de Boer, who suggested that geologists had an important role to play in social issues like nuclear power and radioactive waste. John’s liberal arts background, combined with his PhD in civil engineering from the University of Texas, gave him the added skills to communicate through writing, illustration, and generally teaching clients about the work. He lives in Los Alamos and hopes people will look him up when traveling through New Mexico.

Michael F. (“Misi”) Polgar has been promoted to Penn State professor. He is developing his second book on the Holocaust, editing a collaboration of authors who are writing about remembrance, respect, and resilience, sharing perspectives from history, the arts, and social sciences.

Ophelia Papoulas reports from Austin that her son, who has struggled with ADHD, dyslexia, and OCD, has reached a milestone. Ophelia lost her husband to cancer some years back, and has raised her son through all these challenges. Now that he has turned 18, has his driver’s license, and has graduated high school, there is jubilation at the house in Austin. Ophelia’s latest venture (besides her career at the University) is dundysisters.com. Ophelia and her sister are sewing whimsical pincushions, sachets, and small toys, raising money for various causes. Due to rising home prices in Austin, Ophelia expects to remain in Texas for some time.