Sincere thanks for the response to my requests for information from classmates for this column. I was cheered when I received two from non-’55 members; one from George Anderson ’53 and the other from Don Ritt ’56, in addition to three e-mails from members of the Crucial Class!
George recalled the days when upon graduation, he, Don Fodaski ’54, and Len Stolba ’54 hitchhiked from Connecticut to Santa Monica and found both jobs and a great place to stay. He remarked that after many years he leads a wonderful life, having remarried after his first wife’s passing and now is the proud father of seven children and 17 grandchildren.
Don Ritt brought back memories from 2002 when we traveled to Ireland on an Alumni Tour. For me, most memorable was hearing the call for a doctor aboard the Aer Lingus flight to Shannon. As we deplaned, I saw Don and he told me he was the doctor who attended a woman having a diabetic attack. He also mentioned the chilling thought that he was given “command” of the flight and it was his decision to land as soon as possible or continue on to Ireland! In what I hope was a humorous vein, Don did have an idea of why notes from classmates become less and less frequent. He says, “Your classmates are in the early stages of dementia and are now 80-years-old plus. Seriously, when you get over 80, your ego does suffer and these guys are probably having such feelings.” He did suggest a positive approach and I will give it a try!
Dick Bauman brought us up to date after these many years. He retired from Liberty Mutual Insurance after 37 years and moved to Blacksburg, Va., home of Virginia Tech, in 1995. He took advantage of all the benefits a university town offers, such as auditing classes, theater, concerts, tennis, and more. He and Peg had four children and as he says, “Life has its joys and sorrows, and loss happens.” Their youngest son, Erik, contracted ALS and died in 2009. Peg passed away in 2008 from complications following back surgery. They had been married 52 years. Thanks to family and friends, he has kept on going and now, with a new relationship and a new knee replacement, he is looking forward to life again! He did conclude his most welcome note with a serious question: “Were we really the Crucial Class”?
Our noted traveler, Jim Shepard, and his wife, Sally-Jean, spent several days in Kiev and the Balkans last fall. Jim recently attended a local Wesleyan gathering “in a darkened back room of a hotel bar in San Francisco.” He remarked that 90 percent of the attendees were female whom he believed were aiming for graduate degrees. “I wondered where they get the money,” he wrote and then related when he was a freshman and he was called into the Dean’s office and told if he stopped selling evening sandwiches in the dorm his scholarship would be raised from $700 to $800. As he says, “that wouldn’t buy lattes at Downey House now.”
John Sheaff moans that he gave up skiing a few years back and thus hasn’t been able to take advantage of the “wonderful New England weather” this winter (and spring, I might add!) With only a few limitations on physical activities (no more leaping over tall buildings, he says), he has been doing well. While he hasn’t been on a bicycle in a year due to balance problems, he does say he might try again if and when spring does really come! And John, should you come to Vero Beach to visit Cheryl, bring your bike and we can ride together!
I’ve exchanged e-mails with Tom Nall and am happy to report that he’s mending well from heart surgery. As John Sheaff wrote, he’s gone back to his “old Kentucky Home” and hopefully, family and friends are with him during his recovery.
An update on my cycling: I finished 2013 with a new personal best, having logged 5,807 miles. Still feel strong and healthy and have ridden more than 1,600 miles to date (4/8/14). Marianne and I continue to enjoy the warmth of Florida but still miss the Midwest culture and old friends.
Hopefully, these Class Notes find you well and even in the mood to send a few e-mails this way.
DONALD J. BRAVERMAN | ybikedon@bellsouth.net
27A Stratford Ln. W., Boynton Beach, FL 33436; 561/654-3711