CLASS OF 1975 | 2023 | SUMMER ISSUE
Spring is sprung as I write this on a rare sunny afternoon between rainstorms in Northern California—fitting for the vernal equinox.
Paul Bennett, seven years retired, keeps busy with nonprofit boards and home projects. “I have to chuckle when I reflect on my board roles—when heading for retirement, I promised myself I wouldn’t do board work, but that’s exactly what I’ve ended up doing. I spend a good bit of time on two organization boards—Cristo Rey De La Salle High School in Oakland and Berkeley Symphony. The COVID years have been an enormous challenge for both organizations (and for so many others). The symphony, of course, is a performing art. As we all know, audiences disappeared when COVID hit and have been slow to return. While Berkeley Symphony is now back to its normal performance schedule, we’re still well off on audience counts—and unsure what future trends will look like. We’ve had to address all sorts of unique problems over the last three years—definitely stretched my brain. The high school has been hard hit by COVID, not only with the challenges of maintaining classes and academics during remote learning, but also because the Cristo Rey model depends on the students being employed one day a week in our Corporate Work-Study Program. When many of our employer companies went almost completely remote, many of the jobs for our students (largely clerical/administrative/IT support) disappeared—and with them, the crucial revenue we depend on. We’ve been slowly clawing our way back, but it’s been an enormous challenge. They didn’t cover this stuff at Wes when I was there.” On the personal front, Paul and his wife still live in Oakland; older son is in Brooklyn teaching high school math, younger son in SF working a tech job. Paul’s summary? “Healthy, happy and staying active—all good.”
Dave Rosenblum writes that he retired from Deloitte Consulting in 2013, but “flunked retirement and am reasonably busy with a couple of corporate boards, private equity work, and nonprofit boards. Sue and I live in LA, but we have an apartment in Manhattan and spend roughly three months a year there—babysitting and hanging out with two young grandchildren (and their parents), who live in South Orange, New Jersey, plus really taking advantage of all that NYC has to offer. Had dinner recently with Steve McCarthy, who came in from Connecticut, which was a lot of fun. We are fanatic Dodgers fans, so the best part of the year is soon upon us!”
Susan Gans reports that “after more than 35 years toiling as in-house counsel for various television production companies, I stopped working a few years ago and am enjoying retirement. Being an avid cyclist since my teens, I started riding a tandem bicycle with my significant other just before the pandemic hit, and the tandem has changed our lives.” They tandem toured the Netherlands, Belgium, and Germany last spring and will be touring Japan, the Greek islands, New Zealand, and Spain with their tandem in 2023–24. On the home front, Susan started a Facebook group called SoCal Tandem Riders, which now has over 225 members, through which they’ve made many wonderful new friends. She adds, “I’m looking forward to seeing my classmates next year at our 50th Reunion!”
Cory Kratz sent word of her stay at the Bogliasco Study Center in in Bogliasco, Italy, near Genoa, working on a new book called Rhetorics of Value: Exhibit, Design, Communication, which will be published by Duke University Press. “I was with a great group of eight other fellows, each working on his/her own creative projects. An idyllic and productive time in the center’s villa and garden on the shore of the Ligurian Sea. In Cape Town, I’ll be hiking the Perlemoen Trail with friends before going to this year’s African Critical Inquiry Program Workshop, which is called Archiving Otherwise: Sound Thinking and Sonic Practice.”
John Cavadini writes that he is still a professor in the Department of Theology at the University of Notre Dame, and director of the McGrath Institute for Church Life (at Notre Dame). In another higher ed note, Bruce Weinraub, who lives and practices internal medicine in Northampton, Massachusetts, spoke on his experience in internal medicine to Wesleyan’s premed students in late March.
Janet Brodie is another classmate who appreciated a rare COVID gift—her regular Zooms with Risa Korn and Jane Hutchins. “They started out my college roommates and ended up my friends for life.” She loves the saying, “It takes a long time to make an old friend.” I want to point out that you all qualify, my friends, now that it has been more than a half century since we first met!
Bruce Tobey wrote, “I am still plugging away as an environmental attorney and business consultant. Living each month 60% of the time in Fort Lauderdale, I work with a remarkable wastewater technology entrepreneur and also avoid much of the winter cold (but also endure the summer heat). The other 40% is spent up in Gloucester, Massachusetts, with my wife Pat (Skidmore ’81). Our four daughters (Emily, Dana, Melanie, and Pamela) all came back to Gloucester after earning bachelor degrees at Wagner College, Tulane University, Merrimack College, and Rollins College respectively. All are happily settled down, and they and their men have presented us with a brood of eight grandkids, with a ninth on the way.
My nine years as mayor (1993–2002) still color my life. In 1998 we had a yearlong celebration of Gloucester’s 375th anniversary, both for its own sake and as a warm-up for the 400thin 2023. Because no good deed goes unpunished, 25 years later, I am still at it, serving as president of the nonprofit that has spent the last five years organizing, fundraising, and event planning. The year is off to a fantastic beginning—if you’re in the neighborhood this summer, stop on by!
Dan Gold has a tale straight out of the movies. “Four years ago, with retirement looming on the horizon, my wife Nancy and I sold our Southern California house of 22 years and rented a neighbor’s small guest house. No more chickens, pigs, or horses. Time to downsize. Some of our belongings went into storage, but the important stuff came with us to the rental. Three weeks after we moved in, the Woolsey Fire came through the canyon and burned the little guest house to the ground. We got out okay, but much of the physical stuff of our lives was gone. It was disorienting. I felt as if I was adrift, off balance. It was like I had no anchor. We stayed in motels for a bit then Nancy’s cousin gave us her house for a month. The fire was a weird chapter in our lives and the strange feeling of it comes back occasionally. Like when I’m looking for a favorite T-shirt, then realize, ‘Oh yeah . . . it was in the fire.’ Fast forward a bit and we decided it was time to get serious about relocating. So, we moved to Ventura, a cool little beach town up the coast. I decided to do one more season on the TV series Grace and Frankie and then retire from 40 years of working in camera in the film business. We love our little house in Ventura. We can walk to the beach and walk to the shops and restaurants on Main Street. I have time for surfing, biking, and pursuing my former passion for still photography. I volunteer at the community bike shop in town and Nancy and I enjoy brewing beer together (I mostly wash the kegs). Every once in a while, I get together with Chris Vane and Dave Babcock, and it’s like old times.
Oh, I almost forgot! We have a grandson, Miles. He’s amazing. He’s such a smart, good-lookin’ kid. He really should have his own TV show.”
David Bickford is enjoying life in Los Angeles. “After reaching retirement age I’ve slowed down the pace a bit, but still acting and voice coaching and loving it. My wife and I often travel to Thailand to spend time with her family. I shot a nice supporting role in a film called Discussion Materials but I don’t know yet when it will be released.”
Stephen Blumenthal admits it took a long time for his first contribution to Class Notes. “Forty-eight years until my first peep!” He’s lost touch with classmates, except for Wendy Lustbader ’76 occasionally and Barbara Bachelder. Here’s his interesting journey with a pivotal ’70s Wesleyan moment: “After 10 sweet years of teaching high school English and 12 years at a nonprofit, I was trained in the ’90s to provide psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy and am heartened to see that modality helping more and more people now. Had my organic chem professor not introduced us to LSD, I might never have discovered the path I’ve taken. Thank you, Wesleyan! My partner James and I live in San Francisco and love hiking in the redwoods.”
Tom Wheeler and his wife Sondra Ely Wheeler ’79 spend lots of time away from their D.C.-area home, in New England and Pennsylvania. Those are the locations of their daughters and respective husbands (two doctors, a therapist, and COO of a climate change nonprofit) and five grandkids ranging from age nine to age four (an aspiring ballerina, engineer, artist, paleontologist, and princess-unicorn respectively). “While I’ve resisted the siren calls to return to work designing large-scale software and DB systems for the Feds, Sondra still teaches religious ethics and fills speaking engagements occasionally. Most of our time has gone to helping an old friend with accelerating dementia to get her house sold and get moved into a new living situation near us, and to fundraising for a Christian dalit orphanage in Bangalore, whose donor base was ravaged by COVID (full story at violetschildrenshome.com). We got mild cases of COVID from the grandkids last year, plan a long trip across the American West this spring, and a longer one through Spain and to Siena sometime afterward. We’d love to hear from any classmates passing through the D.C. area.”
Brian Steinbach lamented this winter’s lack of snow in D.C. (come on out to the Sierras, my friend!), and sent the following news at the very last moment: “I have to note the sad demise of the houses at 28 and 34 Lawn Avenue, apparently torn down for the new science labs, as an aerial view reached via a link from the recent Wesleyan Connection showed. Many great memories of parties at 28, which most recently was the ‘Community Engagements House.’ I shared this with Steve Pippin, who lived there with Jeff Cox, Phil Swoboda, and Bruce McClellan ’76 sophomore year. And Steve forwarded it to Jeff, who recalled it was ‘home to the Bite-Me Pumpkin and many raucous parties.’ Jeff, now University of Colorado ‘Distinguished Professor of English and Humanities,’ reports he is still teaching and also still chairs his English department ‘for my sins.’”
But if you want to and can still party like it’s 1975, plan to join us at the Class of ’75 50th Reunion, May 23–26, 2025. While it’s hard to believe, it will be too good to miss.