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Brenda Zlamany continues to impress with her creativity and talent. She recently completed her fourth major commission for Yale University, a portrait of retiring Davenport College head John Witt. Brenda writes, “I’m also thrilled to have several pieces included in Surprises Unknown: The Art of the Wrapping, an exhibition running from February 8 to May 3, 2025, at the Lehman College Art Gallery in the Bronx. The exhibition explores the aesthetics and symbolism of wrapped objects.”

In May, Brenda travels to Newfoundland, for an artist’s residency project she curated titled Reunion: Friendship, Inspiration, and Landscape in Pouch Cove, which will include an exhibition. Later in the year, she will be at Tusen Takk in Michigan during the cherry harvest, painting portraits of cherry pickers as part of her ongoing project, Itinernant Portraitist: Climate in America.

 “I am taking a personal leap by purchasing a house in my ancestral village in Calabria. This mountain will serve as a creative escape and connection to my roots.” We wish her all the best in this next phase of her exciting and accomplished artistic career!

Ellen McHale (parent of Ben McKeeby, MA ’17) checked in from the Capital District Region of New York State, where she has been the executive director of New York Folklore since 1999. “I am entering my 26th year at this cultural nonprofit group that works collaboratively with folk and traditional artists and organizations to bring regenerative practices to bear in order to support the maintenance, cultivation, and nurturing of the diverse cultural heritages found in New York State, including its Indigenous communities. More information available at www.nyfolklore.org.

Ellen was honored this year as a “fellow” of the American Folklore Society for her outstanding contributions to the field. Ellen muses: “I found ‘folklore’ through Wesleyan—through my studies with Mark Slobin in the music department and through a class on folklore and literature. I continue to interact with fellow Wesleyan alumni who are my folklore colleagues, including Maggie Holtzberg ’79, Aaron Paige ’03, MA ’09, Karen Park Canning MA ’91, Andrew Colwell MA ’11, PhD ’18, Jim Kimball MA ’74, John Suter ’67, and many more Wesleyan alumni with whom I share a unique bond.”

Delcy Ziac Fox retired, and she and husband Bill have moved to the Cape full time. Delcy volunteers for the Center for Coastal Studies and also New England Coastal Wildlife Alliance. She celebrated the holidays in Provincetown with former InTown housemates Gary Shapiro and Jim Sullivan ’82, P’19, and then later Jim housed the Foxes overnight when their floors were being done. “You might want to say it was like old times, but 40 years later, bedtime was 8:30 p.m.!” quipped Delcy.

Paul Robinson also seems to be enjoying retirement. “I have officially retired, as of the end of September 2024, and enrolled in an online MFA program to achieve my goal of becoming a ‘famous science fiction writer.’ It’ll take about another year to finish the thesis (novel)—we’ll see where it goes from there!” Good luck to Paul as works on his chef-d’oevre—we eagerly await publication!

Lisa Greim writes that she has “failed retirement,” and now serves as chorale manager and chief fundraiser for the Arvada Chorale, the community chorus she sings with, pursuing a development goal to raise enough to hire contract, production, and multimedia managers at market rates. Lisa says, “I would rather delegate stage management to theater majors and multimedia to ‘digital natives. . .’ because I want to step away at the end of the year and reintroduce myself to my husband, Chris.” Lisa adds, “I would also like to return to volunteering, and to revising the manuscript that Kaylie Jones mentored me through, seven years ago.” Any Wes classmates (singers or non-singers) interested in her fundraising goals can email cololisa@gmail.com.

Joanna Buffington is still “retired” on outer Cape Cod but reports she’s busier than ever.  She has been helping to rescue endangered sea turtles that get trapped in Cape Cod Bay on their way south after feeding further north all summer and fall. She helps patrol the waters, and works in conjunction with Mass Audubon Wellfleet Bay volunteer organization, the New England Aquarium, and volunteer pilots (turtlesflytoo.org) who fly the rehabilitated turtles to other facilities all over the world. “I had a personal record of rescuing 34 turtles this year,” says Joanna.  “With all the human drama around us (especially on the news), I find this a mental health savior.” Amen to that!

Brian Tarbox writes, “This was a year of traveling and talking. I gave my talk, What I Learnedabout GenAI from being a Dolphin Researcher, remotely in Kyiv, China, Japan, and in person in Sao Paulo, Rio, New York, Toronto, and Philly. I’ve become a bit of a prepper but deciding whether to prep for a climate disaster, a ‘Musk-agendon’, the rise of the machines, or a nuclear Putin, is always a day-to-day decision. As it used to be written in the East College tunnels, ‘Do not hope to survive in the vampire economy.’”  Adds Brian wistfully, “I miss the tunnels.”

Congratulations to Mark Saba on the publication of his new book called The Shoemaker (Casa Lago Press), about the experience of Italian immigrants in the U.S. in the 1920s, as well as the lives of their offspring generations later as they move around in their new country. For more information, check out www.marksabawriter.com.

My old C-1 housemate, Paul Godfrey, wrote in from his home in St. Paul, telling me he still has a hockey rink in his backyard and is busy teaching his two-year-old granddaughter how to skate like a pro! Retirement is not beckoning yet, Paul reports, so besides skating, he keeps busy as a managing attorney in the Twin Cities. When he needs a break from the city, he heads out to the gorgeous Minnesota countryside with his close companion—no, not with his wife, Mary Sue, but with his hunting dog, Axel (skating reference!).

Another classmate who isn’t thinking of retirement is Rick Locke. He is making his way back to Boston after serving several years as dean of the Apple University (at Apple HQ). “The big news on my end is that I am going back to MIT to serve as dean of the MIT Sloan School of Management (https://news.mit.edu/2025/richard-locke-dean-mit-sloan-0106). It’s been a great few years at Apple, but I am looking forward to returning to university life. The other big news is that our daughter, Juliana, gave birth to a baby boy (Louis William) 18 months ago. Jessica Barton and I are smitten.” Warmest congratulations to Rick as he assumes the leadership of one of the most prestigious university schools in the world!

Congratulations to Livia Wong McCarthy, recently elected to Wesleyan’s Board of Trustees and who welcomes feedback. “I will do my best to represent alumni interests well and I look forward to how I can help guide Wesleyan’s path during these unchartered times.”

Lisette Cooper checked in from South Florida where she’s working as vice chair of the wealth management division of Franklin Templeton and visiting her three children whenever possible. “And I would love to see any Wes alum in the area!”

Chris Graves writes, “I retired from Ogilvy, where I had served as both a regional (Asia-Pacific) and global CEO for 19 years. I founded my own company (www.TheResonanceCode.com ) where I decode the human Sensemaking Genome for more effective engagement and behavior change. I am working with the Milken Institute on its Project Prevent to increase the access and uptake to preventive health care. I am also supporting Community Solutions, which is led by an amazing woman who received $100 million from the McArthur Foundation for her work in combating homelessness. She and I were both Rockefeller Bellagio residents. And I joined as an advisor to the Muhammad Ali Center where we launched a new Compassion Index measuring and comparing U.S. cities. I am guest lecturing at USC, Columbia, and NYU. My wife, JoAnn Ward, retired from the D.C. Public Library, and we hope to travel together more. We will be hiking much of Portugal and then taking in the big pro-tennis tourney in Turin. Both our daughters live in Brooklyn. One works in research and is getting her graduate degree in data visualization; the other works as a software engineer for a firm that does AI for legal and financial services and is engaged to be married in August. Both daughters grew up overseas with us, as we were posted to Singapore, then London, then Hong Kong.” 

David writes for this issue.

Greetings from Brooklyn! And welcome to our digital notes, where you can share pictures and videos, and I don’t have to figure out how to squeeze it all into 800 words!

We’ll start with Ramon J. Pineda, who is “still in Corpus Christi; still working for Scripps TV; still living the dream! We’ve survived some storms (Alberto and Beryl), a crazy internet outage, the ‘spyware’ disaster that froze half the world, Trump’s assassination attempt . . . and 2024 is not over yet! Life is good, kids are good, and I am getting ready to sign up for Medicare—time flies! Sending you all my regards from South Texas. Be well!”

Matthew King announced that “after 40 years of government service, I retired this summer! From a naval aviator in the U.S. Marines after Wes, to DOJ as a trial attorney, to U.S. Customs/Homeland Security Investigations as a special agent and ending up at the Department of Homeland Security as the deputy assistant secretary of Law Enforcement Policy, it was time. Along the way I received the DHS Gold Medal for actions in Panama intercepting Russian weapons headed to North Korea; made the largest undercover seizure of Chinese automatic weapons in U.S. history; led a team of agents into Haiti after the earthquake in 2010; received two silver medals for other law enforcement issues; and upon retirement, was awarded the Distinguished Service Medal—the highest award DHS bestows.”

Congratulations Matt, on your prestigious awards, and thank you for helping to keep us safe!

Matt adds, “As a famous predecessor once said, ‘First 40 years for God and country—now I am a mercenary!’ I now look forward to my daughter’s, Isabelle ’16, wedding to Parker Wilson ’15 next spring and some lazy fly-fishing!”

Coincidence department: Matt concludes by letting us know that the Parker Wilson is our own Nancy Parker Wilson’s son—“small world!”

Small world indeed! Congratulations to Matt, to Nancy, and to your families!

More and more of us seem to be at the end of long and distinguished careers. After 30 years as a professor of environmental science, urban planning, and sustainable design at the University of Illinois, Daniel Schneider has joined the ranks of those retired and moved back East, “to the Taconic Hills near western Massachusetts, where I’m setting up a shop for my furniture making. My son, Jacob, is working in D.C. as an EMT/emergency room tech, and my daughter, Rose, has just started at Bard College.”  He adds that “I can be reached through my old email, ddws@illinois.edu or my website, danielschneiderfurniture.com.”

Daniel shared with us a picture of him with his two children:

Delcy Ziac Fox, our tireless class agent, writes that the former residents of InTown 21 had a series of mini-reunions recently: Delcy herself met Jim Sullivan ’82, P’19 for dinner in Barnstable Village, Massachusetts; Jim and his son, Owen Sullivan ’19, met for dinner with Gary Shapiro in Brooklyn, New York; and Miriam Stern Sturgis, husband, Gary Sturgis ’77, and Delcy met for dinner in cyberspace.

Delcy tells us that she is retired now, as are Miriam and her husband, Gary. Gary Shapiro is still a teacher at Leon M. Goldstein High School for the Sciences in Brooklyn, New York. Jim is inpatient medical director at a substance use organization, High Point Treatment Center, and son Owen is management consultant with Potomac Point Group. 

The deadline for this edition of the notes was August 26, after the Democratic Convention and before the September debate, which at press time was still scheduled.  We know that the Wesleyan community is a cross section of the country as a whole, and, if you remember the brilliant and remarkable virtual presentation our own Christopher Graves presented for our last reunion—in the context of vaccines—that our nation is very much segmented into four very different categories. He shared with us that we have much to learn about how to communicate not only with those who share our values but also with those who do not. The word “together” does not always apply.

That said, Will Galison wrote a song for the Harris/Walz campaign (you can find it on YouTube). He said, “my last overtly political video (much more ambitious) was in 2008, and it was made an official song of the Obama campaign, being played at fundraisers across the country.”

I end on a personal note, as I have the space to do so. I have joined the ranks of many of you now eligible for Medicare. I hit the big 65 on March 18, and my dear wife, Elizabeth, gathered my three children from the diaspora to join me for dinner at Jean Georges at Columbus Circle, in Midtown Manhattan.

In this picture, you can see yours truly, who forgot to take his napkin out from under his chin 😉 with my wife, Elizabeth, and my children behind us, in ascending order: my son, Lee, 20, who came down from upstate New York, is now in their junior year at the University of Rochester; my daughter, Soshannah, 35, who came down from Burlington, Vermont, and is now a Head Start teacher in North Providence, Rhode Island; and my son, Dan, 39, who is in marketing and came east from Scottsdale, Arizona.

I have enjoyed adding the pictures and not having to count the words. And speaking of counting, I just realized that we have less than two years to our next reunion. I’m looking forward to it already!

I write to you all on the heels of an extraordinary viewing of the total eclipse of April 8 in my town of Bloomington, Indiana, which was smack-dab in the middle of the eclipse path—with over four minutes of totality! Despite cautionary predictions about statistically cloudy weather at this time of year, the day could not have been more perfect: blue skies, warm temperatures, and many friends and family members gathered round in observance and reverence of this amazing  celestial display. My elderly neighbor of 83 started crying as she expressed gratitude at having the opportunity to see such a wonderful thing at least once in her life . . .  and I admit to wiping away a few tears of my own. (Hint, hint: you don’t have to hope and wait for 2044 . . .  there are several others that will be accessible in the nearer future, if you are willing and able to travel!)

Ariel Rubissow Okamoto is still hard at work publishing her regional digital magazine on climate resilience, KneeDeepTimes. She’s also in the “muddy middle” of a memoir rewrite about her days as a vintner, overlapping withe the multitasking of motherhood and science writing. She and hubby Paul still live in the heart of San Francisco and are empty nesters . . . both girls hatched and gone but taking up the family businesses: architecture, writing, equity, environment. 

Brian Tarbox wrote in from the Boston area to share some good news:  He was named an AWS (Amazon Web Services) Ambassador, one of only 250 worldwide, meaning he is one of Amazon’s designated top cloud experts in the world. In addition, he was designated “Alexa Champion”—a similar recognition program for people who develop code for Alexa (with whom we are all acquainted, I’m sure). Warmest congratulations on all that! Brian also writes that he had the pleasure of reuniting with Reina Galanes ’82 last December in California at AWS’s annual conference.  Another highlight of Brian’s year was a recent trip back to Middletown. “I was a panelist at the Wes career center meeting for STEM students. It was great to be back on campus and see all the construction (though I think the Butterfield dorms should get some love soon).”

Julie (Greenberg) Richman (originally Class of ’80) and her husband are still living in beautiful Colorado Springs, where she is now working as a freelance writer of op-ed pieces after many years working in organizational development, training, and project management.  Her husband retired from his psychiatry/pain management practice and now works remotely for Humana. “Our home is open to any Wesleyan alumni—and our view of Pikes Peak is amazing!” she writes. Julie shared some information about the fascinating work of her sons.  Adam (the younger) received his BS from University of Rochester, with a major in linguistics and brain and cognitive science, and his master’s in data science through Denver University; he is currently a data analyst with Waymo, but also nurtured his keen interest in genealogical research to develop an extensive family tree. Josh (the older) earned his BS in mechanical engineering as well as his MEng in aerospace engineering at Cornell. After two years spent with the DART (Double Asteroid Redirection Test) program, he currently works as the deputy spacecraft systems engineer for the Parker Solar Probe/NASA Dragonfly project. 

Brenda Zlamany continues to wow audiences with her stunning, evocative portraiture.  Among recent exhibitions, she recently unveiled portraits of William Brown and Martha Ann Tulip Lewis (Brown) at the Great Hall Portrait Gallery in Worcester, Massachusetts. Her portrait of interdisciplinary artist Zachary Fabri was shortlisted for the Herbert Smith Freehills Portrait Award 2024 at the National Portrait Gallery in London. And she was selected for two artist residencies: the Glacier National Park Artist Residency in July 2024 and the “Reunion:  Friendship, Inspiration, and Landscape in Pouch Cove,” curated by Brenda and culminating in an exhibition at the James Baird Gallery.

Sinclair “Sindi” Sheers wrote in with some sad news but her entry nevertheless serves to inspire. She retired from her position at George Mason University teaching geography to care for her husband before he succumbed to cancer in January 2020. Since that tragic event, she has embraced life (and her husband’s memory) and has traveled the world, often with her daughter or her mom, to such far-flung destinations as Greece, Egypt, Jordan, Costa Rica, Panama, Iceland, France, Italy, Spain, the Balkans, and England. Closer to home, she visited Mexico, Yosemite and the Tetons, New Hampshire, Oregon, Miami, and an Exeter mini-reunion last year brought her together with old friends Sandy Smith, Miriam Block, and Chrissi Winkelbauer Kelly, and where she also had lunch with Richard Eastman. Here is her unabridged update:

“My husband died of cancer in January 2020, right before everything closed for COVID. I had planned to go on a cruise on the Danube River with my older daughter in April 2020 but that was cancelled. My younger daughter and I took a quick trip to Disney World with cousins in late January 2020 and then stayed home for a long time.

            “I had retired from teaching geography at George Mason University a few years before in order to take care of my husband, so I read 93 books in 2020 and 122 books in 2021. After the COVID vaccine became available, I started traveling again.

            “In June 2021, I went to Wyoming with my younger daughter and visited the Grand Tetons and Yellowstone: geysers, bison, beautiful mountains and lakes, and other animals.

            “In October, I went with my mother on a cruise to Greece, Egypt, and Jordan including Santorini, the Suez Canal, the pyramids, Pharos’ tombs, Petra, Amman, and Jerash where we saw many very old beautiful things and few other tourists.

            “In December, I went with my mother and younger daughter on a cruise to Costa Rica and Panama including the Panama Canal. We visited a coffee plantation, a sugar plantation, and saw many interesting plants and animals and few other tourists.

            “In 2022, in March, I went to Oaxaca and San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, with my mother where the architecture is amazing.

            “In May, I went to meet friends in Oregon and took side trips to Cannon Beach, Montnomah Falls, and Crater Lake—such interesting natural phenomena. Later in May, I went to my 45th Reunion at Exeter in New Hampshire where I saw fellow Wesleyan classmate Chrissi Winkelbauer Kelly among others.

            “In June, I went with my younger daughter to Iceland and saw more geysers, waterfalls, the dividing line between two continents, elf houses, hot pools, beautiful Westman Island, and puffins.

            “In July, I joined a friend I met on the October 2021 cruise on a tour of Normandy, France, where we visited Monet’s house, Mont St. Michel, and Omaha Beach. It was above 90 degrees most of the time.

            “In September, I hosted to my older daughter’s wedding in Chicago. Later in September, I spent a few days in London getting together with Exeter classmates (and fellow Wesleyan classmate Chrissi Winkelbauer Kelly).

            “In October, I went on a tour of northern Italy including Milan, Lake Como, Bellagio, Bergamo, Verona, Bologna, and Venice. We toured a place where they made balsamic vinegar and watched glassblowing in Venice.

“In 2023, in January, I visited my aunt and uncle in Florida and met cousins at Disney World.

            “In April, I went to another Exeter mini-reunion in Los Angeles (where I saw fellow Wesleyan classmates Sandy Smith, Miriam Block, and Chrissi Winkelbauer Kelly) and had lunch with fellow Wesleyan classmate Richard Eastman. Also in April, I went on a week-long tour of Spain to Barcelona, Granada, Malaga, Seville, and Madrid.

            “In May, I went on a cruise on the Danube River with my mother that started in Sofia, Bulgaria, and ended in Passau, Germany, with a side trip to Prague, Czechia.

            “In July, I took a week-long tour of Scotland visiting Glasgow, Inverness, and Edinburgh.

            “In August, I joined my older daughter and her husband in Paris and then at a spa in Germany where I became familiar with the European train system.

            “In September, I took a tour of Alsace, France.

“In November, I had a hip replacement and stayed home for a while.

            “In February of 2024, I went to Miami Beach for a few days.

            “In March, I visited my younger daughter in her new home in Winston-Salem, North Carolina.

            “I am about to go join Exeter classmates (including Wesleyan classmates Sandy Smith and Chrissi Winkelbauer Kelly) in Austin to see the eclipse. I plan to see Wesleyan classmate Bob Sweeney while I’m there. Later in April, my older daughter is opening a yoga studio called Forth in Chicago, and I plan to be there to help. Then I plan to go on a tour of Portugal.

            “In May, I plan to return to Scotland to visit the Garden of Cosmic Speculation, which is only open once a year and spend more time in Edinburgh. Also in May, a friend that I met on my tour of northern Italy in October 2022 asked me if I would like to join her for a week in Paris. Of course!

            “In June, we will celebrate my mother’s 90th birthday in Rhode Island with her sister’s family. Later in June, I plan to get together with friends in Michigan and drive up to see Mackinac Island.

            “In July, I plan to tour Ireland with my younger daughter and then meet my older daughter, my sister, her family, and my mother for more 90th birthday festivities in the Netherlands.

            “In September, I plan to cruise the Adriatic with another friend I met on the Suez Canal cruise in 2021.

            “And then in November, I plan to go on a tour of Morocco.

            “Each year, I sign up for one or two tours and then things seem to get out of hand. I haven’t signed up for anything in 2025—yet !!

            “And I am not following Chrissi Winkelbauer Kelly around the world; we just end up going to the same mini-reunions; she seems to have a hand in organizing many of them.”

            – Sindi Sheers

In April I gathered at the lovely home of Kathy Prager Conrad in Alexandria, Virginia, with Livia Wong McCarthy and Deb Chapin for our annual reunion of senior year Sunday-night Coop. We had SUCH a blast reminiscing (as always!), eating, drinking, cooking, walking, visiting museums and the National Arboretum, and enjoying a magnificent nighttime tour of the monuments. So grateful for these friendships that have endured a lifetime—and I know I am not the only one!  So please . . . continue writing in, sharing your stories. And if you are trying to reach someone, know that David I. Block and I (as well as the Alumni office) are here to help you reconnect.

Greetings from the Heartland!  As I write this, the winter solstice is fast upon us. I hope that by the time you read this, spring will be in full bloom, war behind us, and New Year’s reflections manifesting themselves into positive energy and actions.

I received a wonderful update from Debbie Underberg Mueller. After a very successful and satisfying full-time career as an OB/GYN, Debbie relocated to Wolfeboro, New Hampshire to work part time solely as a gynecologist; she is using her free time to pursue her newfound passion—painting. A moment of serendipity in 2016, during a visit to her mom, resulted in her discovering a new talent—one that has become more than “just a hobby.” Debbie wrote, “I had, up until this point, felt very confident that I was someone who was completely artistically challenged. At the end of an hour, I had created a pretty horrible painting, but loved the way that I felt during the experience of creating it. It was meditative, focused, productive—the closest activity that produced this same feeling was performing surgery, but of course, the stakes are a bit higher with that! When I got back from that trip, I bought a box of acrylic paint, and my life as an artist began.” As her skills improved, she entered competitions, resulting in a multitude of accolades and prizes. “This year I received first place in the Art2Life International Juried Exhibition, from a field of over 5,000 submissions.” And Debbie shared that “also this year, Modern Impressionist Magazineran a feature story about me and my work. I show . . . in numerous galleries and have had several opportunities to mount solo exhibitions.” Check out some more of her stunning work at www.debbiemuellerart.com.

David Miller, who is still hosting an online science fiction book club, shared that he and wife Cathryne took a two-week cruise down the Mississippi River from St. Paul, Minnesota, to New Orleans, Louisiana.  “In Saint Louis,” Dave writes, “I  had a chance to spend the day with Linda (Hornby) Shogren ’83, who is also in the science fiction book club, and her husband David.”

Dave continues, “We got [in] a couple of concerts by Ethan Leinwand ’05, covering ragtime and early blues. There were concerts every night, but these were some of the best.  Surprising to me, the second half of the trip was the most enjoyable. Perhaps this was because of the music. . . .  Perhaps it was due to the cruise line’s careful choosing of ports. Or, perhaps, (because) I was just a visitor and didn’t live there. Anyway, I learned a lot (including a bunch of history which may no longer be taught in Florida), heard some great music and stories, ate some wonderful foods, and generally had a good time. Highly recommended if you’ve got the resources, enjoy blues and jazz, and can learn when you hear about some of the horrendous things Americans have done in the past.”  

John Ross wrote in with news of what sounded like a super-fun get-together with some of his Williams Street 10-person roommates: Greg Andris, Alan Mairson, and Sean Moran, who all joined Peter Gryska on his West Texas ranch recently for a long weekend of skeet shooting, wild boar tracking, fossil hunting, a “Friday night lights” high school football game, mesquite barbecuing, and general merrymaking, “Peter, who lives in Houston, is a director at SPECS, an iconic Texas retail chain. John is working on his sixth book and runs a food pantry in Bethesda, Maryland, which he founded, often assisted by Sean, a staff scientist at the military medical school at Walter Reed. Greg, who lives in Miami Beach, owns and manages a luxury resort in St. Lucia. Alan works on various media projects after a long career writing and editing at National Geographic. Much discussion revolved around what the other members of the 10-person—Anne Standley, Barb Parrot Katz, Leora Freedman, Mary Dowd, and Carol Muller—are up to.” Please—write me and let me know!

Felicia Angus reported in from northern New Jersey, where she and her husband of 34 years, Mike, have lived for several decades after spending the first third of their marriage living and working in England. She writes, “I still work in the city on Wall Street, funding Mike’s retirement. Our kids are grown and living in NYC and Vancouver. A whole lifetime has passed since we’ve graduated . . . yet there’s not much else to report!”

Congratulations to Laurie Jacobs on her new job! She wrote in to share that she “remains happily living with Bob in NYC despite the Jersey commute to my new role as associate dean for faculty development at Hackensack Meridian School of Medicine. My kids, Liz (Wojnar) ’12, is in Brooklyn, Julia in Buenos Aires, and Ben in Los Angeles, but all make it home often. I saw Susan Stone and Laura Justice ’83, as well as Corinne Sternberg on a Seattle visit. Life is good.”

I do concur with Laurie. Despite the curveballs that life throws us, let us continue to focus on the positive—on the beauty around us

Greetings from Brooklyn!  Welcome to the digital edition of the Class Notes, with lots of pictures! Thank you for all the pictures.

I write this in August. You know by now that it was hot. And fires. Lots of fires. And, of course, Maui, where my wife and I honeymooned right after 9/11, is well, at press time, authorities were still trying to find the missing and the dead. Tragic.

Greg Davis and his wife moved to Maui in 2021. He wrote this summer:

“We live in South Maui, and the devastating fires that destroyed buildings and homes in Lahaina and Kula were in West Maui. Maui is a very small island, so nothing is very far from anything else, but we were not directly impacted by either of those fires.

“There was, however, a third brush fire in Kihei, where we live. It’s not the first time we have had to contend with smoke, road closures, and power outages from brush fires in our area, but it was the first time we had to evacuate our home. The flames from the Kihei fire came very close to homes that are a few blocks away from us. And flying embers can set homes on fire when the winds are as strong as they were on Tuesday and Wednesday.

“We evacuated our home on Tuesday night with our seven cats. When we got the evacuation notice, we tossed the cats into their carriers and then drove to the evacuation center we were told to go to, but when we got there, we learned that the center was being shut down because the fires were too close. So, we got back in the car and drove south, away from the fires, until we found an empty parking lot at an upscale shopping center in Wailea where we could spend the night in our car. The security guards there told us that management had told them to let people stay in the parking lot and in the public areas of the shopping center, and to keep the bathrooms open. We watched the news all night and saw what was happening in Lahaina but couldn’t get any news about our area. So, when the sun came up, we decided to drive back to our house to see if we still had a house.

“Fortunately for us, the winds had shifted after we left and the fires stayed in areas of vacant fields. There was no damage to our house or to any of our neighbors’ houses.

“The damage, death, and destruction in Lahaina is apocryphal, however, and it will take many, many years for Maui to recover from that. Many, many people have lost their homes, businesses, and their jobs, and at least 93 people have died from the fires [as of his note on August 14th].

“Right now, we are just grateful that we were spared. We are trying to stay out of the way of rescue efforts so that first responders can continue to do their jobs. The fires around Lahaina are not out yet. Eventually, we will try to find a way to help those who have lost so much.”

On a happier note, Lisa Greim retired from Xcel Energy last November, and has been doing contract writing and editing for them and others since then. “Telecommuting for two pandemic years spoiled me—I still want to work, but not the way virtual work expands into your whole 24/7 life.”

She adds, “It’s been a good compromise so far and has allowed me and my husband, Chris Varner, to scuba dive in Fiji, river cruise in the Netherlands and Belgium, and ‘festivate’ at the Telluride Bluegrass Festival. We had the perfect pandemic wedding in August 2020, featuring a masked appearance at the courthouse to do the paperwork and a wedding picnic with our grown kids, boxed charcuterie, cupcakes, and canned beer.”

She saved the important part for last: “Chris is a lovely human being, my kids are both fledged, and life is sweet. Since photos are allowed, I’ll attach one from wreck diving in Sint Eustatius in 2021.”

Luis Taveras has a new book, The 90 Day CIO. “Available on Amazon. All proceeds go to charity. Thanks.” Congrats to Luis!

Brenda Zlamany is excited to announce, as are we, that she is “The winner of  the Worcester County Mechanics Association’s competition for the monumental portrait of William Brown and Martha Ann Tulip Lewis (Brown). William was a successful 19th-century businessman in Worcester involved in the Underground Railroad, and Martha was his partner in life and abolitionist work, as well as a community leader. This painting is one of three portraits of impactful Black Americans of the 19th century commissioned for the awe-inspiring Great Hall Portrait Gallery.”

https://mechanicshall.org/portraits-project/

On June 3, Brenda’s portrait of Elga Wasserman, commissioned by Yale University, was unveiled and permanently installed in its final location at Bass Library, 10 Wall Street, New Haven, Connecticut. https://news.yale.edu/2023/06/06/yale-unveils-portrait-our-very-own-mother-bear

“I am thrilled,” she adds, “to be a visiting artist at the prestigious American Academy in Rome for the month of September 2023!”

Brenda also had a series of Group exhibitions this past spring:

—A Painting is a Painting is a Painting, April 15–June 4, 2023,  at Artport, Kingston, New York

—Undue Burden: Privacy, Protection, and Politics, March 18–April 18, 2023, at City Lights Gallery, Bridgeport, Connecticut

—Five Points: A Convergence of Dreams, April 6–29, 2023,  at Equity Gallery, New York, New York

Mark Saba has a new book of poetry, Flowers in the Dark, which was published in January by Kelsay Books.

At the end of 2022, Mike Trager became a retired partner at Arnold & Porter, where he had been a senior partner and part of the firm’s leadership. Mike began his career as a U.S. government attorney but spent most of the past few decades in private practice in Washington, D.C.  And, thanks to a presidential appointment, Mike has returned to government, where he is vice chair of the Department of State’s Fulbright Foreign Scholarship Board and a member of its Executive Committee. The board has the statutory responsibility for independently supervising the global Fulbright Program. Led by the U.S. government, in partnership with more than 160 countries worldwide, the Fulbright Program promotes mutual understanding among the peoples of the United States and other countries to provide for a more secure and peaceful world. The comprehensive program is a primary means for facilitating international cultural diplomacy and soft power.

Mike is thoroughly enjoying retirement with his bride of 36 years (Mariella, who is Washington Circle Chair of Refugees International). They are the proud parents of Nick ’11, who has spent the past seven years living in London while working for State Street Global Advisors, and Alex, who lives in NYC and works for Microsoft. His parents, Ina and Phil Trager ’56, Hon. ’08, are doing well. In this picture, taken in June at the U.S. Embassy in Rabat, Morocco, Mike is in the middle, joined by embassy staff, the executive director of the Moroccan-American Commission for Educational and Cultural Exchange, and MACECE board members.

Alison Williams writes that she had a great time traveling to Togo, West Africa, in January for two weeks. “I stayed in Notsé, spent a lot of quality time under the mango tree getting to know the neighbors, did some science labs/workshops with high school students, and really immersed myself in Togolese culture. It was wonderful. I took the plunge and am now an independent diversity, equity, access, and inclusion consultant, working with schools (secondary and higher ed), civic groups, trade organizations and nonprofits). I’m ‘up for hire’ if anyone would like to inquire!  I’m managing to play my oboe a lot—a good antidote to the mad times we live in. I’ve been fortunate to have been in touch with lots of classmates in the past six months—too many to list and feel grateful for the friendships that have stood the test of many decades since our student days.”

David P. Miller sent some wonderful photos, including this amazing shot. “In late February, my wife (Cathryne) and I went on a cruise to Northern Norway, to hopefully see the aurora borealis. We were joined on this trip by the Benjamins (Kathryn Moody ’82 and Lee Benjamin). We had three nights of good aurora viewing, over a week of great meals, and a generally wonderful time. The photos below show the aurora over Alta, Norway, and the four of us at dinner.”

In July David went to Omaha, Nebraska, to visit “my good Wesleyan friend, John Lyden. John is now chair of the Religion Department at the University of Nebraska in Omaha. I got to spend several days with him and his wife, Liz, who I found out graduated from Brown in ’82 (we know several people in common). Omaha seems like a wonderful place and I also got to see ‘the greatest office in the world.’ The photo below is of the three of us in Memorial Park in Omaha.”

David adds, “I also regularly see Linda Hornby Schogren ’83. She’s a regular attendee of our monthly Zoom SF book club. I also see Bob Seiler ’82 regularly on our biweekly retired engineers Zoom meeting. One (perhaps the only one) good thing to come out of the lockdown was a massive improvement in video conferencing. I wish Wesleyan continued it today for seminars and updates—for those of us not in traveling distance to Middletown.”

I will leave you with this: stay safe, stay cool, stay out of harm’s way, and may the road rise to meet you—unless you live over a fault.

Greetings from Zurich, where I am vacationing and spending some time with my middle son James, who has been living here for three years and currently works for Google. What a beautiful place, and what a wonderful lifestyle.

So much news this cycle!

Congrats to David Lynch who shared: “I’ve just signed a contract with Hachette Book Group for my next book, a history of what’s gone wrong with globalization over the past quarter century and a look at what comes next. Working title is The World’s Worst Bet: How the West Gambled on Globalization and Lost. It is scheduled to be published by Hachette’s PublicAffairs imprint in early 2025.” A timely topic—and a book we should put on our “to read” list in 2025.

Alyson Myers, president of the Fearless Fund, an organization dedicated to a healthy ocean and a transformational, productive, blue economy (www.fearlessfund.org) traveled abroad in February with Tory Estern ’82.  Alyson writes, “Tory called and said: ‘You wanna go to Egypt?’ I said, ‘Yes, why not?!’  It was that simple!”  They first traveled to Istanbul, then on to Cairo for a few days, after which they boarded a riverboat to Luxor before heading up the Nile ( south, actually) heading to Aswan. What an amazing trip!

Lisa Rudy wrote in from lovely Cape Cod, where she is now a juried master artist in photography. “I’ve also been writing and directing plays in local theaters,” Lisa says, “and you can’t get a much better view than the one we get from the performance space in the Woods Hole Community Hall looking out at the research vessels and Woods Hole passage! I’m still hard at work as a writer and consultant; have done a lot of work on autism inclusion at museums across the country, and our son (who is on the spectrum) is playing clarinet in the town band where his dad is the proud emcee. Meanwhile, our daughter Sara is graduating college . . . no grandkids on the horizon, lol!”

Barb Martin Herzlich and Sandy Herzlich are still living in the suburbs of Philadelphia but enjoying much more free time now that Sandy has fully retired. Barb is turning into one of the area’s premier potters. The only problem is that the pieces she likes she won’t sell because she wants to keep them. The pieces she doesn’t like she won’t sell because she thinks they’re not good enough. “Our home is bursting with ceramics!” Beyond the regular retirement activities of golf, paddle tennis, etc., Sandy’s filling his days coaching football at the local high school and working as a substitute schoolteacher. During Homecoming this past fall, Sandy was honored to be named, along with classmates Tony DiFolco and Tim O’Brien, to the 1980s All-Decade Football Team, followed shortly thereafter with a visit with Tony and his wife Linda at their home in Florida. “It was great to get back and see so many old friends.”

Elisha Lawrence, who is living in Redondo Beach and loving the LA life, shared that her son is getting his master’s in computer science at Stanford and her daughter, who is applying for her MFA, graduated Wesleyan Class of 2021. “That’s 40 years after me!” she writes. “It feels like it was just yesterday that I was studying in the reference room at Olin.” She is approaching 10 years working as AVP, Global Anti-Piracy for ABS-CBN, a large studio based in Asia that distributes their movies and TV shows into 190 countries. Elisha would love to hear from Wes people in the area; she has a Wes sticker on her car and routinely gets stopped by people asking what year she graduated. Apparently, LA is a hotbed of lot of Wes alumni!

Congratulations to Kathy Prager Conrad, who recently shared that she officially retired in March after an illustrious career of service in our nation’s capital. Her last job was at Accenture Federal Services.  In Kathy’s case, “retiring” means a shift from full time to flexible work on a few key projects and from occasional to more frequent personal travel, along with more volunteering and family time. She kicked things off with a trip to Costa Rica; I am looking forward to details.

Deb Chapin checked in from a ski trip to Banff, where she was nursing a knee injury that prevented her from taking on the slopes but thankfully NOT the apres-ski activities. Snowshoeing was also on the itinerary. Cheers to that!

David Miller sent us an introspective note:

“I tested positive for COVID at the beginning of March, being vaccinated and boosted, and fortunately my symptoms have been pretty mild. However, the enforced isolation has given me more of a chance to reminisce and contemplate some things.

“For a few years, starting about 45 years ago, I was able to spend many nights at VVO looking deep into the sky. At that time there were only a few faculty and even fewer astro students. Even amongst that small crowd, I was one of the few who wanted to look through the telescopes with my eyes. I signed up for every observing shift I could and only on the coldest nights containing the longest exposures; 30 minutes or more of quietly tracking a star for Dr. Upgren’s parallax project in the middle of winter, had me questioning my activities.

“For years afterwards, I correctly thought I was spoiled; I had a 20-inch refractor and a 24-inch reflector practically at my beck and call when I was an undergrad. While the intervening years have placed me in the same room with bigger telescopes, I was never able to look through them. While paging through the images at APOD and marveling at the results from the Hubble and Webb scopes, I was filled with the longing and majesty of viewing a dark sky filled with stars.

“Having retired and having the time and funds to indulge some of my whims, I’m able to play with the new breed of smart telescopes. My Wesleyan education allows me to understand what is being done. My graduate studies and subsequent technical experience give me the how. My life gives me the why.

“Seeing details emerge from the seemingly dark sky and seeing the stars strewn across the screen like dust as the details of the nebulae and galaxies emerge makes me feel like I’m 19 on Foss Hill on a spring evening. I do wonder what the current majors feel as they gaze up at the night sky.”

That’s it for now. Happy summer!

Greetings from Brooklyn!  We went to Maine last July and broke bread with old friends Seth Mirsky ’82 and Nicholas Herold ’83.  It was good to see them and their significant others. I also saw Jenny Boylan ’80 here in NYC as part of her book tour for Mad Honey, co-written with Jodi Picoult. But enough about me. You all sent me about 1,500 words of news that I now have to pare down to 722. Here goes:

Paul Robinson reports that the Annie Haslam lead singer of the ’70s band of the Renaissance, has a “legacy” band of which he is a fan, and coincidentally Dave Miller was able to get him an autographed copy of a live album from years ago. “The ’70s live, people!”

Liz Rees reminisced about living on Foss Hill freshman year, and going to dance class in tights and a down jacket. She has a MA in poetry and teaches creative writing to everyone from school kids to grad students, and private workshops that are “like, conducting a post-MFA salon or workshop that lasts 15 years.”  She has also published five books of poetry. She’s looking to connect with “any Wesleyan folks who live or summer in Downeast Maine.”

Sandy Herzlich writes that he and his wife Barb Martin Herzlich are now successfully retired in Wayne, Pennsylvania. They have three grandchildren. Barb is a “very successful potter” and Sandy is coaching local HS football. They returned for Homecoming. He was “especially pleased to be able to catch up with our classmates Tim O’Brien, Tony Difolco, and Paul DiSanto. Tony and I had the privilege of serving as honorary co-captains for the football team in the game against Williams. Photos of the event make us look like old men being helped onto the field by strapping young players. Probably because that’s a pretty accurate rendering!”

Laurie (Conrad) Kramer retired three years ago from her job as a software engineer in the genomics department at Princeton University. “An interesting use of my English major!” She lives in central New Jersey “with my husband Phillip and our dog and keep busy playing competitive bridge. I’d love to hear from some of my Wes friends.”

Wayne Pepper attended Homecoming weekend this fall in order to visit his nephew Adam Pepper-Macias ’25.  He was delighted to see that Adam has followed in his footsteps by becoming a member of Alpha Delta Phi. Wayne gave Adam a tour of the CFA Theater, reminding anyone they encountered that he directed his senior thesis on the main stage.

Ariel Rubissow Okamoto launched a new San Francisco Bay Area climate resilience magazine called KneeDeep Times; we are indeed knee-deep in all kinds of challenges and messes these days. Ariel mentors emerging reporters, photographers, and artists. She is proud to report her daughter Tira is researching climate equity issues as a graduate student at Simon Fraser University, and her daughter Mikki is an architect in San Francisco. Ariel and her husband Paul continue their work to save the planet —he teaches sustainable design at the University of San Francisco. Ariel is also nearing completion of a memoir of her days as a Napa Valley vintner, for which she once appeared on the cover of Wesleyan’s alumni magazine. “Those were the days my friend, we thought they’d never end . . . .”

Charlie Spiegel will be celebrating his 65th (ugh, but along with many of you! Medicare) birthday mid-April in beautiful San Miguel de Allende (SMA) Mexico, where he celebrated his 60th with among others, Nancy Chirinos (Traub).  “You are all invited, otherwise you will need to wait five more years, until we are, umm, well you do the math.” Attendees will include Nick Radcliffe  and Pam Bolton ’85. Laura Fraser ’82, who is hosting in absentia, met with Charlie and Kate Rabinowitz  ’83 to help plan the event.  Charlie says: “We’ll celebrate at an authentic Mexican restaurant in the chef’s carport near where my partner Lon has a small house. BTW, Anne Stevenson Yang and I met up recently to swap stories of current national (Nevada, with Action-SF.com, a group I help coordinate) and local (Connecticut) election volunteering.”

Chris Graves recently hosted a minireunion of classmates from both prep school and Wesleyan, including Professor Jim Terry.

Chris worked full-on throughout the pandemic on the behavioral science of vaccine hesitancy. “I fielded the country’s largest behavioral science-specific study to decode the ‘sensemaking genome’ of the many ways people are hesitant when it comes to vaccines. The Rockefeller Foundation and Milken Institute asked me to chair a work stream on a global task force seeking to craft a blueprint for a better pandemic early warning system. I supported the WHO, UNICEF, Save the Children, and the Chicago Department of Public Health as well with behavioral science insights.”

Greetings from the heartland! I, Joanne, am writing this as summer rolls to a close: cooler evenings, shorter nights, summer’s bounty giving way to fall’s produce and falling leaves. I sincerely hope that each of you has enjoyed the fruits (and vegetables!) that the season brought including travel, relaxation, and joyful encounters with family and friends. I have noticed that people are starting once again to settle down into a pattern of acceptance of this new COVID-reality and moving forward with their lives.

Joanna Buffington writes that she is continuing to work and support land trusts on Cape Cod that focus on land and wildlife protection. She serves on the board of the Eastham Land Trust as well as volunteers for Mass Audubon, helping them in their efforts to protect diamondback terrapin nests and hatchlings, as well as helping to rescue endangered sea turtles that get stranded along Cape Cod Bay when water temperatures drop and they get trapped in their effort to return to warmer southern waters. Thank you for your efforts on nature’s behalf, Joanna!

Congratulations to Melissa Ann Coyne, who was promoted last year to city clerk for the city of Lake Worth Beach, Florida, after having served as deputy city clerk for five years. Melissa reports that her daughter Skye was married at Yosemite National Park on May 3rd. Skye recently wrapped up a starring role in Love’s Playlist (which will air on either Lifetime or Hallmark); she started filming on another project in August. Melissa’s new son-in-law is starring in That’s Amor, which airs on Netflix. “I’m a very proud mama!” she writes—understandably so!

Paul Godfrey is thrilled to announce that he and his wife, Mary Sue, are the proud, first-time grandparents of a beautiful granddaughter, Norah Sage, born to their son Charlie and daughter-in-law Hannah. Paul writes, “My specialty is taking her on long walks in the stroller so that she can get a good nap and her parents can get some work done.” I’m just wondering when she’s getting her first pair of skates and a hockey stick? Paul writes that in June, he and Mary Sue went east to the Cape from their home in Minnesota, and then out to Fishers Island, New York. They spent time with Linda and Tim O’Brien, Diane and Jim Baker, and Cathy and Jon Duane, hanging out at the beach, biking, fishing, and barbecuing for a week straight. Paul says, “For the record, the striped bass in the photo is the biggest fish I ever caught—but Jim made me return it to Long Island Sound because it was too small to keep.”

Chrissi Winkelbauer Kelly was in the beautifully preserved Germany renaissance town of Goerlitz in late August, attending a conference. She described visiting an art installation called Osmodrama—a “smell symphony” played on a device that wafts odors over you to tell a story, while a composition about the evolution of the earth played in the background. She chronicled this on her Facebook page–fascinating! Since suffering from anosmia several years ago as a result of an illness, Chrissi has become an expert in the field and is often tapped to lecture and teach.

Best wishes to Greg Davis, who recently retired to paradise from the NLRB (National Labor Relations Board), where he worked for many years as a field (staff) attorney. He made a big move not just across the country but across the ocean as well,  leaving Harlem for Maui with his wife and their five cats.  Just to confirm: “It IS wonderful . . . very tranquil with many beautiful beaches and  great weather no matter the many microclimates.” And Greg sends his best wishes to everyone.

Ed Suslovic and his wife Jen have returned to their home in Portland after many exciting weeks on the road in their new camper. This Labor Day, they officially become “empty nesters.” All three of their children (Matt, Meghan, and Kate) are all within a half-mile of each other in Somerville—which sure makes visits and family gatherings easy!

Livia Wong McCarthy, her husband Joe, and daughter Delia graciously hosted me and Kathy Prager Conrad July 4th weekend at their lovely home in Princeton. Deb Chapin had to cancel last minute due to a COVID scare, and she was sorely missed—but fortunately, she did not fall ill. In the spirit of our senior year Sunday night co-op, Liv, Kathy, and I prepared a delicious meal which we were then able to share with Shari and Mike Toohey and Lynn and Paul DiSanto. Sadly, Barb and Sandy Herzlich had to cancel at the last minute. But the evening was nonetheless delightful—we all caught up on several (and in some cases, many!) years’ worth of news, both at the table and alongside the hot tub, after which we all donned our souvenir Wesleyan socks, courtesy of Paul.

Paul Gaetano, who retired three years ago after 33 years as a Connecticut supervisory state’s attorney, is thoroughly enjoying “retirement.” He and his wife Elaine just celebrated their 20th wedding anniversary with a fabulous Greek islands cruise that left out of Venice, where Paul was able to dazzle his spouse with his Italian, still sharp from his Wes study-abroad days. Following that, they traveled to Charleston, South Carolina, on their actual anniversary weekend. When he’s not traveling (his wife is Spanish), he is keeping busy as an adjunct professor at the local community college. “I love it!” writes Paul. “I teach criminal law and constitutional law courses to mostly young and ambitious students. When you retire from your full-time job/career, you certainly need to continue with a purpose and concrete goals.” Great advice, Paul, as many of us start reaching that age of retirement. I do know that many of you have already retired from one career—so please reach out and let me or David Block know what you are up to these days!

And since I have a bit of space left, let me share that our oldest son Alex is still in the Seattle area working as a software engineer consultant, solving lots of people’s problems; our middle son James is in Zurich and working at Google, specializing in AI and loving the European lifestyle; and our third son Christopher is in Chicago working as a trader and enjoying the city life. They all somehow ended up with computer science degrees and have found ways to marry that to their interests. My husband continues to teach at Indiana University, and I continue to teach my various-format fitness classes at the Student Rec Sports Center. And we travel as much as we can!

That’s it for now—and best wishes for the upcoming holiday season! And please keep the news coming! Any photos for the online edition of Class Notes should be sent as a separate jpeg attachment and not embedded within the body of the correspondence. Thanks.

Joanne

Greetings from Brooklyn!

I’m seeing themes in this edition of our notes.  Many of us are going strong, as we continue to do what we do, while others are winding down, and even retiring.

For example, Paul Robinson tells us that he was recently notified “I’ve been granted a patent (for you computer techies, it’s related to the Spectre vulnerability reported a few years ago).  This is my fifth patent overall but my first solo, which is a nice career capstone.”

John Hester reports that he is happily retired and enjoying traveling.  He landed in Summerville, South Carolina.

Dave Smith writes that “After 32 years of federal service, I retired from the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency. I plan a combination of loafing, strategic environmental consulting, travel, and home projects going forward. While I enjoyed my time with EPA, having real time for nature, family, my guitars, and novel reading is a wonderful change. Best to all!”

Meanwhile, Michael Getz and his wife Tiziana is delighted that their daughter Melissa “had a wonderful, carefree, pre-omicron wedding in early December of 2021.”

That’s where we are in life, I guess, as we trudge deeper into the second half of our first century: winding down, retiring, and marrying off our children.

Others of us are still going strong with our careers as well. Ramon Pineda writes that he is happy to have changed jobs and is now working for E.W. SCRIPPS in Corpus Christi, Texas. “With NBC, CBS, CW, and Telemundo affiliates, we produce more news than any other broadcaster in the area.” Ramon adds, “News matters to us and we are always looking for great journalists who wish to join our family in Corpus Christi or the other 40-plus markets we serve.”  If you know a journalist in the area, please let him know.

Barry “Pono” Fried continues to offer his unique tours of Hawai’i’s culture, nature, history, language, music, food, wildlife, sacred sites, beauty spots, and less visited country villages, on Maui, Kaua’i, and the Big Island of Hawai’i.

Some of us travel and get together, which we cannot take for granted these days. Belinda Buck Kielland, Livia Wong McCarthy, and friends celebrated Belinda’s 60th birthday two years late in Tanzania this October, “when there was a small window of opportunity to travel. There’s nothing better than the gift of time with dear friends and roommates.” B and Liv wrote that they hope to see more Wes friends soon.

Delcy Fox also wrote that she was “fortunate to celebrate Christmas with my family in the Netherlands, where my son is on a two-year assignment. Since the country was on total lockdown, we took day trips to Germany and Belgium. In November 2021, I enjoyed viewing the Jasper Johns exhibit at the Whitney Museum in NYC with Gary Shapiro. We reminisced about when Jasper Johns came to Wesleyan. In January 2022, I had a Zoom dinner with Miriam Stern Sturgis and her husband Gary Sturgis ’77. Miriam and Gary recently welcomed their fourth grandchild, Adina Clare Paulsen. Throughout 2021, Miriam and I did Israeli Dancing together (via Zoom) every Sunday.”

As for myself, I can’t leave well enough alone. Like many of you, I suppose, I can’t seem to stop learning about all sorts of things and accumulating more and more certifications within my craft. After decades of work as a financial professional, I am now a recently minted CFP® Registrant (who does that at 62?). I have also become a certified tax coach through the American Institute of Certified Tax Planners.  I also continue to help on the Emergency Committee for Rojava, as they continue to be under threat of ethnic cleansing, and worse, from both Turkey and ISIS. My 17-year-old is still deciding where to go next fall, which has a lot to do with why I’m not joining others of you in winding down quite yet.

The weekend before these notes were due, my wife and I saw a dance performance at the Brooklyn Academy of Music of T.S. Eliot’s “Four Quartets.” Yes, the idea is audacious, and was accomplished brilliantly.  I came home to an email from fellow Brooklynite and classmate, Brenda Zlamany, letting me know that her portrait depicting five pioneering women scientists from Rockefeller University will be permanently installed at Rockefeller University, with an unveiling scheduled on April 14th.

And that’s seems to be our world: finding windows of availability for travel, seeing friends and classmates in person, or using Zoom and other remote means to get together, moving our work and careers forward, or winding down (by choice, I hope). In our 60s, I am keenly aware that entropy works. As B and Liv remind us, let’s not take things for granted, and work, against entropy, as much as possible, in gratitude.