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We, John Mergendoller and Bob Knox, are the new ’68 class secretaries. First, we want to honor Lloyd Buzzell’s memory because we miss him as our friend for over 50 years, and we owe him our deep thanks for his joyful work in this role ever since we graduated in 1968. Second, we want to apologize for the significant editing of many of the submissions, a process required by the space guidelines for Class Notes.
John Ashworth and his wife, Nancy, traveled in 2023 to Japan (where John was in Wesleyan’s inaugural Japanese language class in 1967–68). Earlier this year, they went with friends to Tuscany and then to Bar Harbor, Maine, where they joined a family reunion for 17 Ashworths, aged two to 81. “I am doing well—still working two days a week at Denver Botanic Gardens (got my 10-year service pin—I am not certain what to do with it) and working as a master gardener growing food for a local food kitchen. Still skiing with a couple of clubs and generally having a wonderful time. If you are in Denver, we would love to see you!!”
Eric Blumenson retired from teaching law and now spends his time with his wife, Eva, divided between Boston and Cape Cod. “My first and last philosophy book, Why Human Rights? A Philosophical Guide (Routledge), was published in August. Our third granddaughter was born August 20 . . . the three of them will keep us busy and happy for the duration.”
Richard “Zeus” Cavanagh continues to “fail retirement” after stepping down as CEO of The Conference Board. Fated to “work until I die to support a family of spendthrifts,” he is teaching social entrepreneurship at Harvard and has been a board member or advisor at the Fremont Group, Black Rock, Guardian Life, and the nonprofit Volunteers of America, where he has also served as national chair. He says, “I play golf increasingly poorly, try to give my daughter (who is an investor with Cambridge Associates) financial advice, which she neither needs nor heeds, and bemoan the state of our country and Wesleyan.”
Eric Conger vows to stay healthy and active and “die with [his] boots on,” and he is finding success as a playwright. His play, “The Eclectic Society, was produced at the Walnut Street Theatre in 2011, a 1,100-seat venue in downtown Philadelphia. As the title suggests. . . [it was] inspired by the eponymous Wesleyan house.” He has also written two short films, the latest, So Help Me God, was in response to the Dobbs decision. Another play that just received a reading is about “the fate of a small town in Ohio that is overtaken by a national park.” He would “love to hear from classmates who might like to get involved with a production” or view his work—he’ll send a link: eric@congerhumphrey.com.
Bob “Crispy” Crispin just celebrated his 56th wedding anniversary. He has eight grandkids: two are headed to college; one goes next year; two have graduated; and one is in law school. He says, “where has time gone since 1968!” He is enjoying retirement “fishing, traveling, and reading. Also get to see Wes sports when they come to play here in Maine . . . Colby, Bowdoin, and Bates. Also go to Middletown when I can to see us beat Amherst and Williams in football. . . . One son-in-law went to Williams, so it is particularly enjoyable when we prevail!”
Jim Devine writes that “WESU is still my intellectual home and ‘Inspiring Effective Idealists’ still resonates with me. . . . Professionally, I began a 45-year economic development career (living in nine states and consulting in 20 more).” Jaime is the longest serving, continuously elected board member [and] elected chairman of the 5,000-member International Economic Development Council (IEDC). He married, at age 40, “Reverend Elayne Demetreon, [a] clinical counselor, NLP pro, accomplished sculptor. We have two sons (marines), six grandchildren . . . and five great- grandchildren.” He is now “living near Amelia Island, Florida, [where] we are learning how to be lifelong learners and aging with intention not reaction.”
Terry Fralich writes, “I am still working . . . I see about 15 clients a week and teach workshops at the Mindfulness Center of Maine that my wife and I founded 25 years ago. Prior to the pandemic, I taught [for] the largest provider of continuing education for mental health professionals—500 seminars and trainings in 15 years. . . . We live on 35 acres about 20 minutes south of Portland. The landscape around us is always beautiful, but this time of year is special because of all the color and form in our gardens and the landscape generally. . . . I am so grateful to have the energy and health to really enjoy what is precious at this time in our lives.”
Richard Grimm writes: “Since my wife of 40 years, Annabella Gonzalez, died in 2019, I’ve tried to keep up with her extensive family here and especially in Mexico City, Cuernavaca, and Colima. They are intriguing characters, many with creative and artistic careers like Annabella and several who are classic Latin Marxist academics (not the American variety). My son, Henry, my sister, Georgia (Holyoke ’70), and I had a splendid visit to Mexico this spring. Mexico City is eye-opening—hip, elegant, prosperous, artsy, and much more international than one remembers.” Richard has “warm memories . . . of our band of brothers at the 55th.”
John Kepner writes that he and Ray Solomon reunited at the 50th Reunion and are both trustees of a Montgomery County, Pennsylvania, nonprofit foundation advocating for racial and social justice. Ray was also a guest on John’s Race to Social Justice podcast. “In episode 10, Ray gives a riveting account of the 1919 Elena Massacre of 200 Black people near where he grew up in the Mississippi Delta region of Arkansas. . . . In episode 11, Ray shares diversity, equity, and inclusion challenges he faced as dean of Rutgers Law School in Camden, New Jersey. . . . Our conversation recalls how Wesleyan helped shape our commitments to racial and social justice.” You can find the podcast in the usual places.
Harrison Knight writes that after graduation he taught public elementary school on NYC’s Lower East Side for four years. Ken Dawson, Bob Knox, and Don Fels were also part of the same program, which kept all of them out of the Vietnam draft. He started playing tennis on “the gritty public courts” for exercise, and tennis ultimately became his career. His wife and he managed a new Westchester indoor commercial tennis center, then became the tennis pros at the Locust Valley Country Club on the Gatsby shore of Long Island for 25 years. They have “twin boys, Princeton grads, one now married, and Kit and I still live in Locust Valley . . . we ‘winter’ near Naples, Florida.” He says his lasting connection to Wes is through his crewmates, who meet annually to participate in veterans’ regattas.
Bob Knox: “I am with my three grandsons (14, 12, and 7) based in Salt Lake City as often as possible—the four of us took a backpacking trip at Pt. Reyes in early July; the two older boys will join me at the Monterey Jazz Festival in September. I am enjoying active hiking vacations: the five Utah national parks and the Dolomites, Italy, so far this year; and the Grand Canyon, both rims, next month with some running friends. I still run as many miles as I can on the trails of Marin County, California. I host a group of musician friends (including John Mergendoller) to play classic rock and blues together monthly, and I continue to take guitar lessons with Jose Neto, an extraordinary professional.John and I are enjoying hosting our bimonthly Wesleyan ’68 Zoom meetings. I am also a volunteer coach of the running team of inmates at San Quentin, which focuses on training the men for an annual marathon. The team has been memorialized in the documentary 26.2 to Life.”
Don Logie writes that recently “three of my jazz performance photographs won a first prize and two second prizes in a photo contest in Middletown.”
Jim McHale writes: “It was a miracle that Wesleyan admitted me and an even greater one that I graduated. For that I am very grateful to many classmates and the University for their generous support.” John has been “married to Carol (Cookie) Rishel for 56 years. Two sons, both married . . . one grandchild . . . who has inherited my red hair and cantankerous temperament.” They have lived in the same D.C. house for 46 years, with vacations at their “‘camp’ in the central Adirondacks where I spent much of my childhood and both of my parents worked.” He still has “‘indoor work’ as a lawyer for 52 years, now handling defensive litigation as an attorney in the SEC’s General Counsel’s office. . . . This past year, I served as committee member for a doctoral candidate’s academic committee chaired by our classmate Henry St. Maurice.”
John Mergendoller: “Retirement continues to be full of travel, music (bluegrass guitar and Irish mandolin), genealogical research, and family—which has expanded considerably since our 50th Reunion. My daughter, Julia Byrd ’07, now has two sons, Aviv (six) and Cazio (two). Jacob ’11 will welcome a daughter about the time you read this. And just this month, Jessica and I took responsibility for Lily, a lovely, yellow lab breeder. This is our fourth turn as Breeder Keepers for Guide Dogs for the Blind.”
Dennis Miller writes: “I retired from my wildlife survey pilot business in 2019—28,000-plus hours of low-level flight hours in a Piper PA-18 Super Cub in Alaska was enough. I’ve been spending six winter months in Oaxaca, six summer months in Fairbanks, Alaska. For five years my time has been consumed with being the ‘father figure’ to, and helping, four nursing students in Puerto Escondido, Oaxaca. One daughter is the lead pediatric oncology nurse in Anchorage, Alaska. The other daughter played professional basketball in Spain and is now working for Positive Coaching Alliance, a national youth sports organization.” Dennis says, “I’m still alive, life is good!”
Stuart Ober writes: “Our son, Alexander ’26, is spending his junior semester in the Vassar-Wesleyan Madrid Program. This is the same program that my wife, Allison, attended 45 years ago, when she attended Vassar. This summer, Alexander placed among the top eight finalists at the U.S. Freestyle Football (soccer) Championships and interned with an immigration attorney. He also volunteered with the Ulster Immigrant Defense Network, which provides immigrants in need with accompaniment and translations services for court appearances, ICE check-ins and other official meetings, and health care and school-related appointments.”
Ken Schweller continues “to work as head programmer on an international team of primatologists designing computer games to test ape cognition. Our latest project involves testing 60 baboons of different ages . . . to develop a program that will detect developing cognitive deficits as a means of studying human dementia. This is a project especially meaningful for me since my wife developed Lewy body dementia. I retired 12 years ago from active teaching as professor of computer science and psychology at Buena Vista University in Storm Lake, Iowa. I now serve as head programmer of the Ape Cognition and Conservation Initiative in Des Moines, Iowa.”
Paul Spitzer writes: “Christine and I are tucked away in Windy Hill on the Choptank, Maryland, Eastern Shore of Chesapeake Bay . . . [in a] quiet old farmhouse, over 30 years.” They have an all-year garden, and Paul reports, “I swim in the river on most warm days. My deep appreciation of local nature is fundamental; I no longer travel very much. I still speak and lead tours of osprey biology here—science I began at Wesleyan, with DDT study. I have a manuscript, Dark of the Loon, on 30 years of nonbreeding loon study, on the East and Gulf Coasts. I seek a strong publisher and coastal editor for my accessible, literate ecologist’s memoir. I recently published a run of nine ‘Celebratory Ecology’ essays in Connecticut-based Estuary quarterly magazine.”
Bob Svensk reports that he and four ’68 classmates, Nason Hamlin, John Lipsky, Harrison Knight, and Karl Norris, “are heading up to the boathouse in October to demonstrate yet again that you are never too old to row a boat. More importantly, however, this will be the first of several gatherings to celebrate Coach Phil Calhoun’s election to the Wesleyan Athletics Hall of Fame, an honor that is long overdue. On the personal front, Trade Credit Underwriters continues to thrive, largely because I now work for my son, Andrew ’99, rather than the other way around.”
Bob Taliaferro writes: “I will retire from the Human Resources Administration of New York City at the end of October after 40 years of service. I became a manager and for many years helped produce the annual Mayor’s Management Report. I previously worked in the legislative office drafting legislative proposals and analyzing legislation. I am married to Amy, and we have two adult children, Robbie and Kyle ’12. . . . In 1984, I joined the Soka Gakkai International–USA and began practicing Nichiren Buddhism by chanting Nam-Myoho-Renge-Kyo to the Gohonzon for peace, happiness, good health, and good fortune for myself and others. I currently help prepare encouragement meetings for local SGI–USA members who are 65 years of age or older.”
Larry Tondel notes: “I am now happily retired from Sidley Austin LLP where I was a partner focused on structured finance and offshore finance. I am splitting my time now between a lake house on a quiet lake in New Hampshire and our homestead in northern New Jersey. I have been happily married for 50-plus years to Sharyn, who I met at a Club Med so many years ago, and we have two children and two grandchildren . . . before my body gave out, I played a lot of tennis, paddle tennis, and went scuba diving in the Caribbean often. We also travel extensively . . . so all is good.”
Willem H. van den Berg reports that he is waiting on the results of a “follow-up prostate biopsy. . . . I’m still very happily married to my wonderful third wife, Helen Dempsey, and expect to remain so until death do us part (which seems increasingly soon). I’m still doing some windsurfing on Sayers (mostly very calm) Lake, and still giving an occasional lesson in said sport.”
Jan de Wilde writes: “After almost 30 good years in Switzerland and London (work and then retirement), we decided we wanted more time in the States and with our youngest son Mark in New York. . . . We now spend four months or so a year [in East Hampton] and are happy for the time being with the trans-Atlantic commute. Two other sons, who are based in Geneva, have provided us with four grandchildren, and we enjoy practicing what the Dutch call niksen after 25 years of U.S. Foreign Service and another 15 as an international civil servant doing emergency response around the world for the International Organization for Migration.”
BOB KNOX | bob@robertfknox.com
JOHN MERGENDOLLER | john.mergendoller@gmail.com