CLASS OF 1966 | 2023 | FALL ISSUE

We begin with a telling photograph.

On the evening of May 24, 2023, President Roth gathered together members of the Wesleyan University community for a ceremony at the College of the Environment to honor, celebrate, and thank Essel Bailey and his wife, Menakka Bailey, for helping to found and support what will now be known as the Bailey College of the Environment. A dinner at the president’s home followed. As Essel has often and rightly noted: “The most significant challenges we face today are environmental.” Thanks to Essel and Menakka’s vision and generosity, the Bailey College of the Environment will soon have new, updated quarters in a renovated Shanklin Hall, funding for student research projects, and an endowment to support interdisciplinary faculty work on environmental issues. Essel (my one claim to fame moving forward will to have been Essel’s roommate sophomore year in North College) wrote to me, with an exclamation mark, “Our whole family, kids, grandkids, and siblings” attended the dinner as did one of Essel’s faculty mentors, Professor Nat Greene. Rick CrootofSandy Van Kennen, and Will Rhys represented the Class of 1966.

From left to right: Sandy Van Kennen, Essel Bailey, Rick Crootof, Menakka Bailey, and Will Rhys

Wesleyan students and faculty today and for years to come will be inspired by, and benefit from, Essel and Menakka’s vision and support. On behalf of your fellow classmates, thank you Essel and Menakka.

Essel Bailey

Although he retired as distinguished professor of psychology from the University of California, Davis, eight years ago, Phil Shaver has not let grass grow under his feet, writing: “I have continued working on research and writing projects with other (younger) people. One of them, a very creative Israeli professor, Mario Mikulincer, and I have two new books out, both with long academic titles, I’m afraid: (1) Attachment Theory Expanded: Security Dynamics in Individuals, Dyads, Groups, and Societies; (2) Attachment Theory Applied: Fostering Personal Growth through Healthy Relationships.” For his many scholarly contributions to the field of psychology over many years, Phil will be honored—and what an honor it is—in September with induction into the American Academy of Arts and Sciences. Not sure where he finds the time, but Phil has also “been taking watercolor painting classes and playing golf a couple of times a week, until three weeks ago, when I had to have knee replacement surgery. Throwing your weight leftward while pivoting on the left knee gradually wears the knee out. My workaholic professor wife, Gail Goodman (who has not retired yet), and our 27-year-old twin daughters, both of whom live nearby, are a lot of fun and treat me very well.”

Clark Byam, who lives in Pasadena, California, continues “to hike and play some golf. Also have a lot of Goggle stock, so good retirement accounts. Wasn’t recommended by a broker but years ago Wall Street Journal article I read said if you don’t know what to invest in . . . invest in Google. Best advice I ever got.”

On May 25, Barry Thomas sent this wonderfully informative update: “A couple months has passed since Connie and I returned from Burundi. Other than just being a bit lazy, the only excuse is that I have been a bit under the weather for a couple weeks. Nothing serious or chronic, and I am getting better. Just getting old which, I am coming to understand, is serious enough.

“The time in Burundi during February was very good. We were joined by another couple . . . Ana is an early childhood education person who had helped Connie with the online training programs during the pandemic years. Her husband is a now retired professor of religion at Appalachian State. They found the experience to be . . . extraordinary—of course, seeing all the negatives involved with the extreme poverty but, on the other hand, all the good work being done by the Dreaming for Change staff. Connie and Ana had a rewarding three weeks working with the teachers and the children. There are now 130 children in the school that includes a first primary grade. D4C has experienced an influx of children and mothers in recent weeks as they seem to be coming from greater distances for food and other help. Part of the issue is that D4C is becoming known in the province as a good place where food and a nurse’s care are being provided.

“During our visit, D4C celebrated a fifth anniversary. The place of trust that has been built with the community is noteworthy. Connie and I were also impressed with the staff Janvier has attracted and the organization he is putting together. In my time working in poor places, I have learned that, aside from the bad political leadership and governance, the main factor holding people in their subsistence life is the absence of organization management and just plain organizational work experience.”

David Luft plays in a different league. He is now “learning Czech and working on a book about Czech intellectual history since the 15th century.” He “started earlier with Spanish and Latin, and my real love, of course, was English. Thanks to Beckham and COL, I did get pretty good at German, and I kept at it. But I got interested in Austria, which was where Musil was from. So, there was a lot for me to unpuzzle about languages. And then in 1980, Solidarity made me want to learn Polish.” Of course! “For the past 20 or 25 years, I have been learning Czech and Polish in a chaotic way. It’s demanding . . . but pretty interesting. I can see Russia more clearly from there and understand Austria and Germany much better. I did learn some Russian in the 1980s, and Czech and Polish are closer to Russian than to German.”

Tom Pulliam worries that “my story is a little monotonous.” Hardly, Tom. What a life you are living! Tom is “coaching rugby at Stanford (mostly with women’s team who finished third in country last season) and with kids ages 10–14 at San Francisco Golden Gate Rugby Club—absolutely loving it—and still watching three grandsons (10, 13, and 16), who live seven minutes away, play baseball, flag football, and soccer. The 13- and 16-year-old [are] now playing MLSNext soccer, which is highest youth level in the U.S., but prevents them from playing anything else because it is so intense.” Tom’s “granddaughter is headed to sophomore year at University of Hawaii and is extremely happy there, studying marine biology. I am determined to get over there for visit and to see Hardy Spoehr.”

Shortly after hearing from Tom, I got this note from Hardy Spoehr: Aloha, Larry. . . . Nothing much to report here except our second hurricane of the season is moving slowly toward us. Also, just want to put a plug in [for] Wesleyan’s ongoing webcasts of its athletic events . . . looking forward to viewing this year’s teams with my morning cup of coffee. . . . He Ola Kakou—be well.” Both Tom and Hardy wrote before the devastating wildfires in Maui.

Al and his wife, MJ

Al Burman writes that he and his wife, MJ, are “still enjoying work and spending most of our time in Arlington, Virginia, and Sausalito, California, where quite some time back we had a chance for a nice catch-up with Barry Reder and Phil Shaver and their spouses. I was very sorry to hear about Frank Burrows.” Al attaches this photograph “of my wife MJ and me from our Amsterdam-to-Bruges bicycle-barge tour in June 2022. It was great fun and we are off to Mallorca for a similar ride in November.”

Great missive from Joel Russ who writes: “Carolyn and I celebrated our 55th wedding anniversary this year. We are now living in South Bristol, Maine, to be near three grandchildren (two of whom are off to college at Oberlin College and Conservatory and Williams) and are enjoying semiretirement. Carolyn retired after 33 years of public school teaching, and I in a variety of community-based nonprofits in Maine. I still do a little strategic planning and facilitation consulting for Maine-based nonprofit organizations, serve on three local nonprofit boards (land conservation, early childhood education, and chamber music), and one statewide nonprofit board, the Maine Gun Safety Coalition. I also coach the local elementary school cross-country and track and field teams. Trying hard to stay fit and busy.

“My most important activity at the present time, however, is to help raise funds for a critically important Maine resource, LifeFlight Maine, Maine’s only emergency helicopter and air rescue service. This service is particularly important to Maine’s rural and coastal island communities. In the past 25 years, LifeFlight Maine has transported over 36,000 Maine residents of all ages, most of whom were experiencing life-threatening conditions.

Joel Russ

“This is my personal story and why I am so committed. Twelve years ago our daughter-in-law, KC Ford (our son Matt’s wife), was a passenger in a small plane that sank soon after leaving Matinicus Island, located 21 miles off the Maine coast. KC sustained serious, life-threatening injuries. Had it not been for a LifeFlight Maine emergency helicopter, KC would most likely not have survived. As you can imagine, our gratitude toward LifeFlight Maine is immense. I have committed to express that gratitude by participating in a major fundraiser, Cross for LifeFlight, a self-directed athletic activity. My goal is to run 100-plus miles in the month of August and to raise $6,000.” Here’s a photograph of Joel the runner and one capturing the cause.

Joel fundraising for LifeFlight Maine

Ever so good to hear from John Stremlau, Hon Professor of International Relations at the University of the Witwatersrand. John writes: “My wife and I returned to Johannesburg in 2015, where I am working on a comparative study of the politics and international relations of South Africa and the U.S. Reckoning with race in these two different and distant democracies is a major thread. Although it primarily deals with recent and contemporary events, on a more personal level, I recall my formative experiences on issues of nonracialism and political equality, that really began during the 1960s at Wesleyan.

“I believe I owe a special debt to the late John D. Maguire, who was just out of grad school and a member of the faculty. He had developed a friendship with Dr. Martin Luther King, who he [brought to campus] several times during the 1960s. Meeting Rev. King, listening to his address in Foss Hill Hall and in smaller discussion groups, had an enduring impact on my life and still does. Indeed, I probably would not be here in South Africa, which I first visited in 1977 and became a permanent resident in 1999, or served in Atlanta as vice president for peace at the Carter Center (2006–15), had it not been for John Maguire. John, I think was born in Montgomery and in 1961, the year before our first year, was arrested along with MLK and another Wes colleague, David Swift, for joining one of the early freedom rides.”

John would very much like to hear “from any classmates who might have had a similar formative experience with Maguire and King during their four years at Wesleyan. It would be helpful to hear from them as a kind of reality check.” John can be reached at: jjstremlau@gmail.com or john.stremlau@wits.ac.za.

Those of us fortunate enough to live with him on the first floor of a Foss Hill dormitory freshman year referred to him as “the Great One.” That him is, of course, Alberto Ibargüen, who from being editor of The Wesleyan Argus went on to a distinguished career in journalism, among many accomplishments, becoming publisher of the Miami Herald. In 2005 Alberto became president and CEO of the John S. and James L. Knight Foundation, a philanthropic organization that invests in and supports media, arts, and culture. A New York Times article of March 24, 2023, let us know that Alberto is stepping down from that position. In its lead it says “He Brought an Artistic Flair to the Knight Foundation’s Philanthropy.” The article notes, “In its 18 years under Alberto Ibargüen, the organization funded punk shows in Detroit and poetry dropped from helicopters in Miami. As he prepares to retire, he talks about what might be next.” Congratulations to Alberto on a distinguished career. We wait to hear what is next for “the Great One.” (See: https://www.nytimes.com/2023/03/24/arts/design/alberto-ibarguen-retiring-knight-foundation.html).

From celebratory to sad news. Bob Dearth writes: “So sorry to learn of the passing of F. Sugden Murphy, one of my favorite fraternity brothers. We kept in touch often during the first five or 10 years out of Wesleyan and then drifted in different directions as we aged and our families grew. Then later, after he has moved to New Hampshire, I learn he has become good acquaintances with a friend from New Canaan whose wife was a classmate of my wife at Skidmore and who then moved his family to New Hampshire too. Many fond memories of our time together at Wesleyan and after. RIP.” Frederick Sugden Murphy Jr., known as “Skipper,” died on December 10, 2022. An obituary can be read here: https://www.seacoastonline.com/obituaries/pprt0381553.

And our classmate, Grant Holly, died on November 8, 2022. In 1970 Grant accepted a position as assistant professor of English at Hobart and William Smith Colleges, where he would serve for the next 52 years, a greatly admired and cherished teacher and colleague. Many of you may not have known him at Wesleyan, as he and his wife, Michael Ann, and their daughter, Lauren, lived off campus. He and I, however, became close friends, both majoring in English, both writing our senior theses in the basement cubicles of Olin Library. That friendship deepened as we went on to complete our graduate degrees at the University of Rochester, writing our PhD theses under the same mentor, Professor James William Johnson. The friendship and good times I shared with Grant and Michael Ann beginning from our days at Wesleyan will always be cherished, his death shaking me. Grant, being the life force that he was, I thought would live forever. Here, if you have not seen them, are some links:

https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/latimes/name/grant-holly-obituary?id=37402268

https://www.hws.edu/news/2022/remembering-professor-grant-holly.aspx

https://www.hws.edu/offices/president/statements/statement-on-grant-holly.aspx

From left to right: Isaac, William, and their mother, Li

Let’s end on a happy note, this from the peerless Jeff Nilson, who begins with a photograph of his two grandsons, Isaac ’26, and William, The tallest family member . . . age 17 . . . who plays the piano, the bass guitar, and the standup bass . . . wants to study music in Europe,”  and Jeff’s daughter, Li ’88, mother of Isaac and William.

Jeff goes on to write: “I am still taking nourishment. I try to be grateful every day. I say to myself, ‘This is the day you are given. Rejoice in it.’ Jeff has “started my third children’s book. It is an easy-to-read mystery narrated by a bulldog named Daisy.” Here, the opening lines of Sally, Daisy, and the Mystery of the Kidnapped Dogs: 

“Someone was stealing dog toys from the dog park. But my sister Sally and I didn’t care. We are not fetchers. We aren’t jumpers either. We are sniffers and watchers. We are bulldogs with short legs and heavy bodies. We don’t jump. We don’t run. We waddle. We like a good snuggle and a good scratch behind the ears.

“Our favorite thing is sniffing. Every morning there are great smells on the sidewalk in front of the dog park: other dogs, a few cats, rats and mice, roaches, spiders, old hot dog juice, and drops of old ice cream.

“We hang out with our dog walker Keisha. Here’s a photo of Keisha, Sally, and me in front of the dog park in Fort Greene Park, Brooklyn: In that photo behind us, you can see a lot of jumping and fetching. But Sally and I are not one of those crazy fetchers.

From Sally, Daisy, and the Mystery of the Kidnapped Dogs by Jeff Nilson 

“A couple of weeks after this photo was taken, some of my best friends disappeared. There was Alex the Greyhound and Felicia the mutt. She had one blue eye, one brown eye, and a lot of wisdom. I missed her. Who was taking our friends? No one knew how to stop the dognappers. And no one knew how to rescue our missing dog friends….”

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Dear Classmates,

Thank you to the following who kindly responded to the recent request for news:

Charlie Bassos: “Daughter, Christi Bedan, is a vice president for the Tampa Bay Bucs. She has been awarded a Super Bowl ring and an Emmy. The Emmy was for a series with Brady and Gronkowski on the Bucs website. My five grandchildren: one 12 and the others six and under, all brilliant and all beautiful! Life is wonderful: 43 years of marriage; warm weather in South Carolina, golf twice a week, and survived a heart attack and small stroke.”

Bob Barton: “I’m hanging in there and fortunately playing a lot of tennis. Major Moise is recovering nicely from shoulder surgery. He says he starts hitting golf balls again in two months. Jay Clapp just completed the National Senior Games in Pittsburgh on an 80-plus basketball team (3-on-3 half-court). He was injured in the qualifying games prior to the nationals, but went to Pittsburgh anyway, hoping he would recover enough to play, but could not. Nonetheless, his team made it all the way to the bronze medal game and lost in a valiant effort.” (Congratulations, Jay!)

Bob MacLean: “In touch with Phil RussellJohn Dunton, and Ralph “Jake” Jacobs. Jake and I get together at the annual Laguna Seca Raceway in California, where he knows every driver and car history. A great reunion! This year was my 60th year as a private pilot, having upped my credentials along the way to air transport pilot, certified flight instructor/instrument, while owning a Pilatus PC12 for charter; now it just ferries me between Palo Alto, California, and Aspen, Colorado, where I have worked part time at Aspen Snowmass ski school for the last 17 of 47 years as a certified ski instructor.”

Steve Badanes: “Life is good here on Whidbey Island. I’m still teaching our Neighborhood Design/Build Studio every spring at UW (ndbs.be.uw.edu), but the end is in sight and I might hang it up after this year. We got used to not traveling during the pandemic and it’s gotten pretty hard to get me to leave my studio here in the forest, especially this time of year. I sold my place in Vermont to the caretakers and retired from my summer gig at the Yestermorrow School, so I get to stay in the Northwest year-round.”

Clyde Beers: “Summer all good: family, friends, sports, and a wonderful trip to WES U to see our granddaughter, Libby, graduate. Then to Grand Cayman with our daughter Susie’s family. And then our traditional exciting Fourth of July with (self-exploded) fireworks. Gardens started slow, but with some rain later, everything’s blooming. Golf and tennis fun but challenging, with back and neck soreness helped by physical therapy.”

Carl Hoppe: “As I ‘mature,’ I continue half-time the practice of clinical and forensic psychology (family law). At other times, I play doubles tennis regularly, swim at the beach or at the nearby club pool, and walk our 14-pound dog with my wife, Diane, also a psychologist in part-time practice. Health is good enough for us older folks, but they don’t make memory like they used to!”

Gar Hargens: “Turned 80 in April. Missy and I celebrated at Franconia Sculpture Park like we did for my 70th with kids and grandkids and many friends. When I turned 60, Missy said: ‘Architects don’t get good ’til they’re 80, so why not keep going?’ So, I kept working. Latest project is for a Grammy-winning composer on Enchanted Island in Lake Minnetonka. Alpha Delt roommate Bob Leonard and I enjoy keeping in touch. He’s found a Celtic chapel(?!) he wants us to look at in Vermont.”

John Hall: “Daughter, Samantha, just gave birth to identical twin boys, Archer Ray and Rhodes Herbert Diaz. These are grandchildren eight and nine for Annie and me, but who’s counting.

“Continue to see Kit Laybourne ’66 on a regular basis and have re-engaged with my old roommate, Jim Bernegger.  After the reunion last fall, Mike Maloney and I have discovered many interests in common, including our Irish heritage and the challenges and opportunities brought by immigration. Annie is well on a new set of knees. Son, Jeremy ’92, a writer is on strike. Clear to me that he can’t/shouldn’t be replaced by AI. But that promises to be an epic struggle.”

Arthur Rhodes: “Am spending golden years with famous and brilliant designer wife, Leslie Claire Newman (www.SpaceInteriorDesign.com), among blended families: my daughters in Illinois, ages 53 and 51, and their three children each (ages 12 through 21); and Leslie’s three sons in Houston, Texas, and Mandeville, Louisiana, ( ages 46 through 49), and their five children (ages one through 11). Have totally separated from patient care after more than 50 years in academic medical practices at Massachusetts General Hospital and Boston Children’s Hospital, University of Pittsburgh Medical Center, and Rush University Medical Center in Chicago. Time flies taking care of two homes (Illinois and Louisiana) and visiting family. Leisure pursuits include daily walking, gardening, and photography (see Instagram account under my name or PapaZaydeh.”

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As your new class secretary, I extend appreciation for the messages from the three classmates below and unashamedly beg the rest of you for more in the coming months. There are no milestones too small, no reflections too revealing—your classmates want to hear them all. Given life’s calendar, our opportunity for reporting is shrinking rapidly. So, don’t tarry.

Brett Seabury wrote: “Wesleyan started my journey to become a ‘lefty.’ Two of my three daughters went on to Wesleyan too. Liz was a French major and Carrie was an American studies major. After graduating from Wesleyan, I went on to graduate school in social work and later a doctorate in social work at Columbia University. My formal education was broken up with another kind of education—three years in the U.S. Army at Fort Jackson, South Carolina. I do not think I can be blamed for losing that war because the Viet Cong never invaded Myrtle Beach or Charleston, even though General Westmoreland was a Carolinian. I spent the next 35 years as an academic at the University of Maryland and University of Michigan. There must be some kind of underlying defect in my career choices to work at two U of Ms.

“During my years at Michigan, I was able to pursue an avocation in sustainable farming:  producing grass-fed beef, chickens, sheep, goats, eggs, maple syrup, and raw honey that were sold at local farmers’ markets. At Wesleyan we were required to take many tests upon entering and exiting, and I remember my Kuder Preferential Test score that placed me highest in farming. After four years at Wesleyan, this test showed an even higher score in farming, which upset my parents who paid tuition all those years. When I look back after 60 years, I’m amazed at the accuracy of the prediction of this test. “I am presently involved in trying to get marinas and boat owners to considered electric boats and electric motors in their recreational boats. Though the Plug Boat Directory shows that most electric boats are made in Europe, the industry is growing here in the USA and Canada. One of the first electric boats was demonstrated at the 1893 Chicago World Fair. Today, many of the electric boat manufacturers are in Florida and California, but the industry is spreading across the USA. I hope we can stop the destruction of our planet for our grandchildren’s sake before it is too late. You can view my efforts at: protectmichiganinlandlakes.com.”

Steve McQuide reported: “While I really wasn’t prepared for the Wesleyan experience, I became a scholar of sorts in law school. I married June in the summer of 1967, and those student deferments caught up with me: three years active duty (infantry OCS, Korea).

“I practiced law in Albany, New York, for 35 years, active in local politics and the Rotary Club. June and I raised two fine boys, and now enjoy traveling in retirement, especially our skiing months in Utah, and our three grandchildren. I gave up drinking years ago, and am content, although I am concerned about the stark division of today’s populace along ideological lines. Intelligent discussion and kindness seem rare.”

David Skaggs, a former Colorado congressman, contributed: “After breaking a hip in a fall while planting strawberries in our garden in April, I am happily recovered with a new titanium post in my right femur. If you ever need a hip replacement, the anterior (not posterior) procedure is the way to go.

“I haven’t quite shed all political activity and am now focused with a group called Citizens to Save Our Republic. The mission is to disabuse folks of the surface appeal of the No Labels effort to field a ‘moderate, independent’ presidential slate. Our polling makes clear that a third-party ticket as proposed by No Labels, i.e., candidates for president and vice president—one R and one D—would pull more votes from Biden than Trump and in a predictably close election, ensure another term for Trump. You can decide if that’s a good idea.

“Hope we’ll have a good turnout for our 60th Reunion next spring.”

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This is my first class note since becoming Class Secretary. I have the dubious privilege of being, as you all know, Class Agent as well, so you can expect that I will be asking you for both news and donations.

I am succeeding Jan Van Meter, who sadly passed away unexpectedly, just after beginning cancer treatment, in August 2022, news of which only reached Wesleyan recently. Jan had a varied and interesting career, ranging from service in the navy to CIA intelligence analyst to assistant professor of English, among other things. He retired as a senior public relations executive. His full obituary is published in the most recent copy of the Wesleyan Alumni Magazine.

It is with sadness that I report the recent passing of our classmate, Thomas Spragens, on June 1. Tom had a distinguished academic career at Duke, from which he received his PhD in 1968. His obituary can be read here: https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/heraldsun/name/thomas-spragens-obituary?id=52246604.

Our 60th Reunion was well attended. The weather was, for once, cooperative, and it was a pleasure to see that everyone had aged gracefully. Despite geographical separation, and the increasing infirmities that age is visiting on all of us, I hope that we will have a sizable contingent at our 65th.

My initial request yielded two responses; I can only hope that future reminders will generate more news. Your classmates do care about what you are doing and where you are.

Fritz Henn writes that he is “still moving about.” He recently returned from Paris, as a granddaughter rowed for the United States in the World Rowing Championships. Her crew won the first heat but finished fifth in the finals—a good result, as the U.S. does not have a national team. Fritz traveled with his son, also a Wesleyan graduate. “Met friends and ate well.”   

Alex Aikman reports: “Ruth and I celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary in October 2022. In September of that year, we marked our 30th year together. In many ways, little has changed or happened in many years in the public side of our lives. The private side, however, has had some challenges as well as highlights. Our four children are happily married and successful in their chosen fields, albeit none living nearby. We now are great-grandparents, which is special on its own. Ruth has made these years wonderful, interesting, and loving. Best thing I’ve done since graduating in ’63. 

“At the end of March this year, we moved from California to Medford, Oregon. We both felt it was time to go even though Ruth, born and raised in California and having spent most of her life there, will always think of herself as a California girl. The move has had its challenges, as do all moves, but we still feel it was the right decision.”

Like probably all of us, Alex is retired. After a brief stint in a law firm, he moved to court administration. “I was able to work for about 45 years in court administration in state courts, with most of those years as a management consultant, to trial and appellate courts across the nation. I have written the leading book on ‘the art and practice of court administration’—also the title—and have contributed to a book that may replace mine as the leading book, which we hope will be published in the first quarter of 2024.”

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Two noteworthy outdoors accomplishments top off this report. First, Richard Dranitzke undertook a one-week hiking trip to the Faroe Islands, followed by a second week touring parts of Iceland with his daughter and her two children. The Faroe hike was listed as four out of six in difficulty by its organizers, and despite age‑related concerns expressed by his family, Richard reports that “being the rational, slightly stubborn fellow that I am, I had to go. . . . Faroe Islands are one of the most beautiful places I have ever been to!” His photo of himself against the scenic Faroe backdrop confirms this and although conceding that the event was quite challenging, Richard humorously described himself as the best hiker in the group at the final dinner at the end of the trip. 

Richard on the Faroes

Walt’s canoe-loaded car

In another impressive adventure, Walt Fricke “was invited by a friend to join a party canoeing the Horsethief-Ruby Canyon stretch of the Colorado River. After uncovering my canoe from its repose under a tree and confirming that it could be carried on my small SUV,” Walt found “the water was an order of magnitude higher than on my previous trips, and in its one rapid, I got unceremoniously tossed out of my position in the stern by a fierce cross current and swam the rest of the rapid. Fortunately, the canoe didn’t dump, and all ended well.” Kudos to both Richard and Walt.

In a more worrying report, Bruce Menke relates that his youngest son, who holds an MIT PhD in computer science and works for Google, has been slowly recovering from three spinal fractures sustained when he was struck by a large SUV while in a protected Boston crosswalk. Thankfully, after many weeks in a wheelchair followed by assistance with a walker, a full recovery is eventually expected. In other news Bruce and his wife Karen “continue to fight the good fight” for Democratic causes in Athens, Georgia, both with letter writing campaigns and by hosting a fundraiser that brought in nearly $8,000. Their two other sons and a daughter-in-law are all having highly successful careers as tenured professors at the University of Georgia, two in English literature and the other in genetics.

John Hazlehurst reports that despite losing a position with the collapse of his longtime employer, Colorado Publishing, he and wife Karen continue to produce their successful visitor magazine, Colorado Fun, and further have accepted new positions with the weekly Pikes Peak Bulletin. “Otherwise, life goes on and I’ll soon be joining my Colorado Springs High School classmates for our 65th reunion. There will be about 50 of us, and we’ll all be wearing large type name tags.” John further reflects that “our days at Wesleyan seem so distant—and much to my surprise, neither of our Colorado senators call me for advice. They’re both nice kids who graduated from Wesleyan. How did we get so goddamn old? Here we are, ‘Livin‘ after midnight,’ as the song goes.”

In a somewhat related vein, Steve Trott writes that contrary to the “golden years” myth, “Well, big surprise. North of 80 ain’t all that it’s cracked up to be. . . . But the good news, I guess, is that the combined ages of our putative presidential candidates, if understood in IQ terms, is off the charts.” Steve deplores the country’s polarization, “hearing all the time from the pundits that ‘Americans want divided government.’ What? This mess?  I think that’s rationalizing incompetence into a strategy.” On the personal side, he and Carol are still in California where “this place is crazy expensive . . . maybe just crazy period. Downtown San Francisco is now a homeless encampment . . .  and parts of downtown LA are nearly as bad.” Steve concludes by thanking Bob Hunter for “continuing to keep my NATO thinking on the right track.”  

Len Wilson writes there is “not much new in my world. Staying active with YMCA alumni groups, nationally, internationally, and local, and editing a newsletter that goes to over 20 countries and keeps me busy scrambling for interesting articles. . . .  I continue to play pickleball several times per week and would like to find a partner over 80 that would make for a formidable doubles team. Joyce continues to enjoy painting when we have some spare time without company at our shore home. Looking forward to learning how our other classmates are faring and funning.”

In a very sad note received just before going to press, I learned of the passing of Stan Scholl in Madison, Wisconsin, this past July 13. His obituary may be found here: https://www.prattfuneralservice.com/obituaries/Stanley-J-Scholl?obId=28433897.

Unsurprisingly, as we increasingly find ourselves among Wesleyan’s oldest surviving alumni, our news and notes tend to focus largely on issues related to aging. As a concluding note in this context, I have recently been appointed as the oldest “citizen member” of an Older Adults Advisory Committee established by my local regional government. I expect (hope) to receive far more advice from this position than I can give and will try to keep you posted on any useful or promising results.

CLASS OF 1961 | 2023 | FALL ISSUE

The response from classmates for this Class Notes publication has been excellent.  Terry Allen is in the starter’s box with the following: “In January 2023 I sold the last of the 20 companies I had started since Wesleyan. I wouldn’t have had to start so many if more had been successful, but I enjoyed the challenges along the way. Recently, Debbie and I acquired a license to farm cannabis in Vermont. She is the grower, and my focus is marketing. We are having a ball! We both play tennis every week and take overseas hiking trips once or twice a year, plus visit our seven widely located children and nine grandchildren.”

          Bob Owens reports that he is “doing reasonably well” after experiencing a minor stroke two and a half years ago. He bemoans the fact that he is no longer driving, but expresses his gratitude to his life partner, Barbara Morton, and to volunteer drivers in his community transportation program, allowing travel to appointments and even a future road trip from Denver to New York City, making it possible to visit his granddaughters.

John Alvord provides this update: “Marie and I are still living in Las Vegas (home of the Stanley Cup–winning Golden Knights) and enjoying retirement. We finally sold our house and bought a condo. I don’t miss the outside work since someone else now does it. I hate to see what has happened to our country and fervently hope it can be fixed. I just heard that Pete Drayer passed away last year. He was my freshman roommate, four-year fraternity brother, and a groomsman at our wedding. Pete was a very highly regarded judge in Philadelphia and will certainly be missed.”

Jack Mitchell tells us about his serious, yet successful, eye transplant operation performed last spring. “Bacteria were eating my membrane over the cornea, which was extremely painful. The surgeon removed the membrane, cleared the infection, and then inserted a donor’s membrane.” Now completely pain free, Jack resumes his tennis and his devotion to his family clothing business. He adds: “I’m excited to announce the addition to the business of my oldest grandson, Lyle ’16, a past graduate of Wesleyan and of Columbia Business School.”

While teaching ceramics at a boys’ camp, Russell Mott questioned a class of 10-year-olds, “How old do you think I am?” to which most replied 70-plus, while others said 60 somewhere. The answer most appreciated by Russell was “I can’t count that high!” Russell also mentions a 14-year-old lacrosse goalie wishing to follow his dad, who played lacrosse for four years at Wesleyan. “Shout-out to Nate Osur, Tommy Patton, and our class who started lacrosse at Wesleyan in the spring of 1959.”

Limited space allotment requires that only a portion of Emil Frankel’s informative and extensive update is enclosed in this Class Notes publication with a promise of his remaining comments to be revealed in the next edition. Emil writes: “I was on campus for Reunion & Commencement weekend and participated in meetings of the trustees and trustees emerita. There was some discussion of what Wesleyan’s response would be to what was then seen as the inevitable (and has since occurred) decision by the U.S. Supreme Court to end affirmative action in college admissions, a core element of Wesleyan’s pathbreaking admissions policies for over 50 years. President Roth stated then—and repeated in his subsequent statement announcing the end of legacy admissions—that Wesleyan would remain committed to building and maintaining a diverse community and would continue and expand its efforts to do so within the limits of the Supreme Court decision. A wonderful surprise during the annual march of the alumni was to be greeted by Jim Thomas’ son. Since I was the only one in our class present, and carried the Class of 1961 flag in the parade, I was the one to benefit from a wonderful conversation with the son of one of our great classmates.”

Robert Hausman reports: “I am still in touch with Glenn Hawkes, Emil Frankel, and Bob Wielde. Bob also adds in free form:

“In the midst of my dotage I am asked for some news.

May I be excused by claiming the blues?

Since WesTech has done away with legacy,

it leaves my grandson leg-less in misery.

“I am content in my senior condo. I walk an hour a day and then lift weights for 15 minutes. All my family is close by. I am a new great-grandfather. In my junk, I found a directory for our freshman class. If you want to see what you looked like in ’58, I will sell it to the highest bidder. The same with a Commencement program I found, if you want to see what prizes you won.”

Lastly, Russell Mott wrote recently to tell say that Joe Powers passed away in mid-September. Russ said, “Joe and Maria had moved back to the Washington, D.C., region from New Mexico a few months ago, and they were living in northern Virginia when he died.” Condolences to his family and friends.

Respectfully submitted,

Jon

CLASS OF 1960 | 2023 | FALL ISSUE

Nici and John Dobson experienced 32 wonderful summer days in Virgin Gorda, British Virgin Islands.

Jim Meyerhoff is retired from his position as chief of the Department of Neurochemistry and Neuroendocrinology at Walter Reed Army Institute of Research. He is currently a faculty member in the Psychiatry Department at Uniformed Service University of Health Sciences where he continues to investigate medical neuroscience that is relevant to injuries that are experienced by those in the military. He is grateful for the superb biology courses he received while at Wesleyan.

I have joined an informal group led by K. C. Sulkin, MAT ’65. After walking together, we go to a nearby Whole Foods for coffee and conversation.

I am saddened by the passing of Will White ’61 in January 2023. He began attending Wesleyan with our class in fall 1956 and received his bachelor’s degree with a major in geology in 1961. Our families developed a close relationship that was fostered by those special years when all of us were living in Colorado.

CLASS OF 1959 | 2023 | FALL ISSUE

Greetings from your Class of ’59 scribes. With John Spurdle’s passing, Skip has asked Dick Cadigan and Al Brooks to join the Class Notes and Class Agent team. John and Skip combined those two offices upon the retirement of Ed Murphy and Bert Edwards.

We have heard from Walt Burnett that he has sold his mountain home in North Carolina and has settled in a lovely independent living facility in Maryland. Walt maintains the travel schedule of a “much younger man,” having logged over 7,000 miles this past year through the north central states, and this summer will do New England and Maine for a family gathering on Monhegan Island, followed by a visit with Alan Brooks in Boothbay Harbour, Maine. Sounds great!

Jerry and Martha Doolittle write of moving from their home of 47 years to a residential community in Lebanon, New Hampshire. Their new home is only 10 miles from their former home, so the change may not be so difficult.

Speaking of Al Brooks, he is competing in the shot put at various senior events, winning three gold medals this summer. He says there are very few competitors older than 80, so he is aiming at the “younger guys” but admits to beating fewer of them as time goes by.

A freshman roommate of Skip Silloway reports in, perhaps for the first time, on our more famous mate, Marty Weil, who is the longest tenured employee at The Washington Post. Does he have any influence on Jeff Bezos?

Herb and Ellen Steiner recently spent a few days with Tim and Sybil Martin in Scotland, Connecticut. Herb is also in touch with Joe Vander Veer and Bob Ogren. Herb and Ellen are major FaceTime users, in an effort to keep track of 11 grandchildren. Well done with that.

Received a long note from George Holzwarth who is still working! He is an emeritus professor at Wake Forest in the physics department because “that’s what I like to do.” George’s wife, Natalie, is also a faculty member but she works full time! George requests classmates write to him at gholz@wfu.edu about our experiences in our freshman year with our world-class professors. He endured Professors Rosenbaum, Brown, Green, Cody, and Schorske.

Tim and Sandy Day continue their various involvements and travels. They recently returned from Israel where they walked the path of Christ with their pastor—”a very moving experience.” They continue to actively support the marine corps by providing education for members of the officer corps; they support animal rescue; and provide service dogs for the compromised marines. They also support Tim’s alma maters, among them Wesleyan, with support for the fitness departments, where the strength and fitness part of the athletics department are beneficiaries.

Owen Tabor wrote in response to our last Class Notes issue, suggesting a comment on the recent legacy decision by the U.S. Supreme Court. He feels that “legacy” should not qualify an unacceptable applicant but legacy and loyalty are tied together. To refuse to consider what a legacy family contributes, denies the University the history, community, character, and flavor that it wants to trade on when alumni support is sought. (NB: Individuals from legacy families are still most welcome to apply to Wesleyan—they are not being denied the opportunity to be a future member of the Wes community.)

And, finally, breaking news from Al, who reports that “on September 14, just in advance of Hurricane Lee, the seventh annual MidCoast Maine reunion took place. Sadly, the original band of brothers has dwindled down to six of us which includes Dick and Linda Cadigan, myself and my wife, Marie-Pier Brooks, and Joe and Wendy Mallory, at whose lovely home we gathered on Pemaquid Point. However, the group received a surprise phone call from another member, Anne McHugh, wishing she could be with us.

Clockwise from left: Dick Cadigan, Al Brooks, Wendy Mallory, Joe Mallory, and Linda Cadigan. (Photo taken by Marie-Pier Brooks.)

‘The evening included dinner of swordfish, prepared by Linda, and much eclectic conversation ranging from AI to affirmative and legacy action, to the evolution of the Earth, to how best to pick a president, to sports, of course, and even to astrophysics! (Mallory showing off his smarts.) We also talked, of course, of our 65th Reunion coming up and the momentum building for it—’59ers are starting to line up.”

One more reminder: Our 65th is next year, May 24 and 25. Put it on your calendar!

CLASS OF 1958 | 2023 | FALL ISSUE

Gentleman, I was not swamped with replies.

            Dan Woodhead’s three grandchildren are all aiming to make the USA Water Polo 2024 Olympic team for the Paris games. Grandsons Dylan and Quinn both graduated from Stanford and helped Stanford win the Men’s NCAA Water Polo Championship in 2019. They are now playing professional water polo in Europe. Granddaughter Ella contributed the game-clinching goal in Stanford’s NCAA championship win against USC this past May. She will step away from Stanford this fall to train full time in Seal Beach, California, with the USA Women’s Olympic Water Polo Team.

            Tom Mosher and his family, 15 strong, just completed a two-week trip in southern Germany, Switzerland, and France. They were on the Rhine for eight days and report that the weather, the surroundings, and the people could not have been nicer.

The Moshers during their European tour, summer 2023

Good to hear from Bart Bolton who aims to visit Florida next March.

Kay and Bob Terkhorn decided to explore the U.S. after some bad European airline experiences last year. They visited Napa and Sonoma in the wine country and followed that with a cruise on the Snake and Columbia Rivers following the Lewis and Clark route. He and Kay are doing well and do not intend to slow down soon.

Joanna and Bill Fryer keep busy with family activities, including great-grandchildren. Bill is retired but works part time as a Lutheran pastor.

Art Geltzer did attend our reunion in person along with one other classmate. He is traveling less, but still enjoys retirement. He winters in Providence, volunteering for the medical school where he spent his career; and summers in an old whaler captain’s house that he inherited from his grandmother.

A few months back Rick Pank suffered a stroke. I have followed his recovery via phone calls to his wife, Brenda. He is much better and anticipating a full recovery. He would enjoy hearing from classmates. Phone: (203) 853–0375; email: wfpank@aol.com.

Recently I had a long phone call with Dick Goldman. He is in good health and continues both tennis and golf. And he dabbles in the legal profession. Dick was a good friend of Don Hill who passed away early in the year. Dick contacted Don’s daughter, Martha Hill-Enright, who asked me to include the following in our class notes:

Don Hill

“We are saddened to learn of the passing of Don Hill, Class of ’58. Don grew up in Newton, Massachusetts. He went to Wesleyan with his good friend, John Hobbs. In high school he met his wife, Ann. They were happily married for more than 60 years. He played on the tennis team at Wesleyan for three years. Don had a distinguished career in public service and in education in public high schools and Stanford University. He had three children and three grandchildren. There was a lovely memorial service celebrating Don’s life in Cloverdale, California, on June 18.”

Heard from Burr Edwards who is keeping a low profile in Lectoure (southwest France) due to the heat. Burr is the son of Wilbur N. Edwards ’16 and the grandson of Nelson Edwards 1879. Suffice it to say he has some concerns about the new “no bump” policy for legacies.

            Tony Codding wrote that he thoroughly enjoyed our Zoom reunion with our classmates, “who seem to be holding their own at this stage in life. I reconnected recently with my Eclectic fraternity brother and former roommate, Bob Smith ’57, who is the Class of ’57 scribe.”

Kay and I keep busy; visited my sister in Alabama in May, saw my grandson graduate from University of Toronto in June, and spent six days on Long Island in July.

Keep moving!

Cliff

CLASS OF 1957 | 2023 | FALL ISSUE

In late May Gordon Wilmot and Marilyn flew from Providence to Portland, Oregon, to enjoy a cruise up the Columbia and Snake Rivers. The daily informational meetings brought back everything they had forgotten about Lewis and Clark and their contribution to our history.

Gordon Wilmot’s river cruise ship, May 2023

In last year’s fall issue, Mark Feldman mentioned the oral interview of his experiences as an attorney in the D.C. area, including the State Department. It has now been published as a book, entitled Footnotes to History, Law and Diplomacy. You can find it on Amazon and read it on Kindle for only $4.

A sad update is the passing of Ed Porter’s wife Elaine, after 59 years of marriage. Ed and his two sons are trying their best to adjust to life without her at their side, but it’s difficult. Condolences to all the Porters.

George Willauer and his wife went to his 70th high school reunion in Philadelphia. Having attended the school K–12, he was “a lifer.” Despite canes, walkers, and one wheelchair, all eight people there had a memorable time.

I got a long note from Hal Ochsner. Although he spent his senior year, followed by med school, at Indiana, his memories of Wesleyan and his Clark Hall roommates are strong. He moved to California in the 1960s and still practices medicine there, despite the leukemia he treats with infusions. Hal is our class agent, and you’ll probably be hearing from him later this year.

Ken Travis writes that a conversation with friends over dinner some 45 years ago led to student exchanges with a remarkable French family that culminated this year with 16 Americans attending a lovely wedding outside Paris. Four generations of French and American families partied most enthusiastically. Ken and Janice are about to celebrate their 64th wedding anniversary. He wishes all the best to the ’57ers.

I just learned that Jack Braitmayer died last July. He grew up in Marion, Massachusetts, and went to Tabor Academy there. A successful businessman, he also served as a trustee at both Tabor and Wesleyan. Jack loved boats and sailing and was a huge supporter of the New Bedford Whaling Museum. Condolences to all the Braitmayer family.

This spring Betty and I took a road trip up the East Coast. We spent a week at the time-share we own in North Carolina. (It’s for sale, by the way.) Then to Maryland where we got to see our great-grandson and his identical twin sisters. Finished by visiting cousins, nieces, and nephews in Virginia Beach, where we got married almost as long ago as the Travises. Great time.

Bob Smith and great-grandson, Wesley, summer 2023

Stay well and try to beat this heat.

Bob