CLASS OF 1983 | 2016 | ISSUE 2

Hi, All! Global warming or not, it has been a beastly hot Memorial Day weekend in New Jersey. My daughter and I thought we’d escape the heat and took a ride to the Jersey Shore, only to sit shivering on the beach craving a hot cup of coffee. Ah, well. Best laid plans. Here’s what some other classmates have been doing:

“Marcus Eliyahu Mann (called ‘Marc’ until age 24!) is now a happy and grateful, serious and also often playfully goofy professional personal growth counselor in private practice (relation-shift.org), as well as a passionate writer, poet, and ‘un-rutted’ East-West, mind-body, dogma-free spiritual philosopher in W. Mt. Airy, Philadelphia, Pa., USA, Earth. He has written two book collections: Shame and Magnificence: The Discovery of the True Self, and Its Unveiling — A Record of Personal Awakening to Who We Really Are; and The Conscious Jew: Awakening to the Meaning and Value of the Jewish Anomaly; Distinguishing and Reclaiming the Path OF Jesus from the Myth and Religion ABOUT Him—and the True Reason to BE or Become a Jew; as well as a children’s book: The Colorblind Bower Bird: a Children’s Book for the Men and Women We Are Becoming. He loves his work, private practice, students, and individual and conscious relationship clients (he invites you to come see his site!—and be in touch!), and enjoys a long-since found and grounded sense of the ineffable. He supports and catalyzes others in discovering their selves from-the-inside-out intrinsic authority and creative ownership; in having healthy, co-creative celebratory relationships with self and thus with others; and in how to give up the human addiction to what might be called Outsourcing The Mystery. Having lived in many wonderful places across the U.S. and beyond, and after moving to the now self-recognizing, beautiful ‘Ugly Duckling City’ — Philadelphia—some years ago, he discovered he loves it right Here.”

Glenn Lunden had a pair of mini-reunions with Wesleyan friends visiting NYC. He spent Saturday with Michael Mendelson ’85, his wife Pam, and son Ari, who were visiting from the Washington, D.C., area. Ari is graduating from high school and is keenly interested in Glenn’s line of work, public transportation and urban planning. They met at the New York Transit Museum in Brooklyn, to receive a personalized and highly idiosyncratic tour from Glenn. On Monday, Glenn and partner Frank Meola got together with friends from the Boston area, Bruce Masi-Phelps ’82 and wife Mary, along with their sons Patrick ’15 (who lives nearby in Brooklyn) and Matthew (who is in NYC for an internship for the summer). Daughter Andrea ’18 stayed at home in the Boston area. Glenn adds, “Bruce and I both missed the 35th anniversary celebration of the Wesleyan Spirits at Reunion this year; we’d helped found the a cappella singing group back in 1981. To the relief of everyone at brunch, we did not break out into song.”

Lisa Kennedy writes that her daughter, Julia, is graduating from high school and will attend Fordham University in the fall. She asks anyone “to e-mail me if you have kids there: lisakennedy137@gmail.com.”

Tuckerman Babcock was elected chair of the Alaska Republican Party.

Three years after Kirsten Wasson left her stable academic life in Ithaca, N.Y., for L.A., and after several jobs in various venues from floral arranger to juice bar girl, she is now the college counselor and internship coordinator at MUSE School, a private high school in Calabasas, Calif. In her free time she hikes, swims in the ocean, and spends time with son Noah, a model and actor in L.A. Kirsten also performs as a storyteller (of midlife adventures) at venues around the city and had two stories aired on KCRW’s UNFictional program. She is finishing a memoir about starting over as a single woman over “a certain age.” Kirsten, I can relate to that!

Karen Adair Miller shares, “Retired life continues to be a challenge, as I am busier than ever! That said, been traveling and am looking forward to being with our WesU field hockey crew in August. Tammy Rosengarten Darcas is flying from Australia to meet Sue Stallone Kelly, Barb Bailey Beckwitt, Karen Adair Miller and Gretchen Millspaugh Cooney for a fun end of summer weekend! “

The women of 77 Home Avenue are also having a summer reunion. Marina Melendez, Lisa Miller, Kathleen Bransfield and I will meet up in NYC to catch up on the last few decades, and toast Marina and husband, Joe Virgadula ’80, on the engagement of their son, Luis. We will also toast and Skype our good friend Deborah Mutschler, honorary classmate ’83, who can’t join us.

Judy Korin has lived in Los Angeles since 1988, and is a filmmaker. Her “recent proud achievements are: co-directing the short virtual reality film, Francis, an intimate story meant to shine a light on global mental health issues that premiered for an audience of 250 policy makers and mental health professionals at the first-ever World Bank/World Health Organization high-level meetings about global mental health and producing a micro-budget independent film, Finding Neighbors, now available on all your favorite digital platforms.”

Heidi Brierley and husband Jim Boyce “moved from the San Francisco Bay Area to Heidi’s hometown of Berlin, Conn., to be surrounded again by trees and family. They are also closer to their daughter who is at MIT.” Heidi, thanks for being the only classmate (guilt intended!) to share a recent enjoyable book: Laurie R. King’s latest, The Murder of Mary Russell, and she suggests reading the series in order, starting with The Beekeeper’s Apprentice. I spent one day of this Memorial Day weekend completely procrastinating from working on my dissertation (which is finally almost done…well, sort of!) to read The Orphan Train, by Christina Baker Kline. It is one of those books you just can’t put down.

Amy Appleton writes: “I was delighted to return to Wesleyan to attend the graduation of my daughter, Charlotte Sarraille ’16. Charlotte majored in English and classics. My son, Ben Sarraille ’19 is in COL and sings with the Wesleyan Spirits. I’ve attached a photo from the tent party and one from graduation.” [See classnotes.blogs.wesleyan.edu]

Cheri Weiss, a fourth-year cantorial student at the Academy for Jewish Religion in Los Angeles, has just released a new album of High Holy Days music. Hineni was conceived as a way to bring High Holy Days music and prayers to those unable to attend services through illness or other reasons beyond their control. It is offered free of charge to anyone unable to afford it, as well as to chaplains and other clergy working in hospitals, retirement homes, etc. It’s also for purchase through her website Hazzanit.com/music on CD or digital download format.

Thanks all for contributing. Until next time, Namaste.

Laurie Hills | lauriec@rci.rutgers.edu