CLASS OF 1981 | 2014 | ISSUE 3

Greetings, classmates! It’s been a while since I have reported due to various and sundry electronic mishaps, so allow me to publicly thank my co-anchor, David Block, for pitching in at the last minute on several occasions. Much obliged, David!

Leora Freedman has joined Occidental College (in Eagle Rock/Los Angeles) as its general counsel after spending several years in the Office of General Counsel at California State University. “I am very excited about this new challenge and opportunity,” she writes. “The job keeps me very busy, which is good because our children have left the nest, and I miss them a lot!” Leora’s daughter, Anna, graduated from Sarah Lawrence College in 2013 and lives in N.Y.; Leora’s son, Jeremy, is currently a junior at Berkeley. One nice thing, Leora notes, is that “Occidental is a beautiful school and working on the campus reminds me of my days at Wesleyan!” I guess we can’t go back… but we can sure appreciate the memories.

I received news from both Kaylie Jones and Lisa Greim as to how their paths crossed this summer at the Norman Mailer Center’s summer program in Salt Lake City, where Kaylie taught a memoir-writing workshop in which Lisa participated. “It’s the coolest thing I’ve done recently,” Lisa noted, “and it was the first time I’d seen Kaylie since graduation day in 1981! So it was especially fun to reconnect and bomb around SLC!” Lisa reports that she is still living in Denver, still writing, still empty-nesting—and still single!

As to the news from Kaylie: In addition to her writing and her regular university position, Kaylie often teaches at workshops like the one at the Norman Mailer Center. “It was one of the best workshops I’ve ever taught because Lisa Greim came from Colorado to be in the group. We reminisced about old times and our shared mentor, Jack Paton. It was a great gift to spend this time with her.” On a more personal note, Kaylie writes that her daughter Eyrna (a high school senior) spent the entire summer studying kung fu with Shaolin monks in Qufu, China. She is planning on applying to Wesleyan.

“When I brought her to my 20th Reunion,” Kaylie writes, “Eyrna went to Camp Cardinal for the day and said, ‘I like college very much. This is where I want to go.’ She was three and hasn’t changed her mind since!” One of the more exciting developments in Kaylie’s professional sphere is the new imprint she began under the aegis of Akashic Books which, she informed me, “just happens to be a fantastic independent publishing company created by another Wesleyan grad, Johnny Temple ’88.” This New York-based imprint, called “Kaylie Jones Books,” has created an exciting cooperative of dedicated emerging and established writers who are integrally involved in the entire publishing process. What an exciting endeavor!

It was great to hear from Charlie Newell, who deserves congratulations as he celebrates 20 years as the artistic director of the University of Chicago’s Court Theatre. The Theatre is poised to open their most ambitious season yet as they commemorate 60 years of theater. On the slate are two world premieres, a Greek tragedy, a Beckett masterpiece and a classic American musical—all supported by the Center for Classic Theatre at the U. of Chicago. If anyone is in the neighborhood, don’t miss one of these productions! Check out courtheatre.org for schedules and more information.

Ariel Rubissow Okamoto is still heavily involved in ecological issues out in the Bay Area, where she continues to write and publish on California water and ecosystem restoration issues. And speaking of restoration, Ariel writes that she and her family spent several weeks putting their vineyard to rights after the August 2014 earthquake in the Napa Valley. “Who knew so many plumbing and irrigation connections could be broken in 12 seconds,” she muses, “not to mention wine glasses? The tremor was so strong it broke the leg off the iron wood stove and the wheel off the grand piano!” Wow! Fortunately, everyone made it through the quake safely and—luckily for wine aficionados—the Rubissow wine inventory remained intact.

Matt King wrote in with news of his family. Daughter Isabelle ’16 is currently studying abroad in Copenhagen, where Matt and his wife plan to visit later this fall. On the work front, Matt has been asked to take over as the deputy assistant secretary of a new division at the Department of Homeland Security called “Law Enforcement Policy” while still keeping one foot in International Affairs. “This should be fun, and busy,” says Matt, “but it makes the holiday in Denmark seem too far away!” Congratulations on your new position, Matt, and all the best—it’s no easy task in today’s world!

Stephen White tells me that he retired from the military in 2011, is working at his wife Gayle’s property business, and enjoying it very much. Their 20-year-old daughter, Taylor, is living and working in Amherst, Mass. Steve also writes that he was “back on campus just last night picking up the latest sweatshirt!” Go Wes! He sends a special shout out to Jim White ’80, Mike Whalen ’83 and Bryon Lyons ’82.Another alum who was recently on campus is Ed Suslovic, who dropped off his daughter Kate ’17 for the start of her sophomore year. He and Spence Smith ran the Alumni Cross Country Race Sept. 6th., placing “respectably” behind the current set of runners. Ed writes that he and his wife dropped off their other daughter at Smith, where she is following in Ed’s footsteps as a cross-country runner. “I tried to keep up with her this summer with no success. I was hoping that experience would trump age but no such luck.” Son Matt started his sophomore year of high school and is unsure how he feels about being an only child. (My son Christopher found himself in the same boat last year… I think he’s looking forward to college!)

Kathy Prager Conrad, too, was back on campus in June for the graduation of her daughter Caroline ’14, who is now living in New York City along with her sister Liza ’11. This past July, Kathy, Deb Chapin Neebe, and Livia Wong McCarthy reunited at Livia’s beautiful home in Princeton—alas, without the fourth member of the Sunday Night Co-op (me!). Needless to say, a good time was had by all—even minus the Gallo Hearty Burgundy (and yours truly)!

Doug Mannen ’82 checked in from Oregon via Facebook. So much happening in his life! His two oldest daughters are getting married this coming year, child four of five just started college, and the youngest just entered high school. “It kind of feels like the beginning of the end of this phase of life,” writes Doug, a sentiment to which most of us can relate. He laments that he does not see too many Wes alum out in Oregon but this July he had the pleasure of welcoming Mark diTargiani ’85 and his family, as well as Coach Mike Whalen ’83.

Bart Brebner sent along this update: “In September, the following members of the Class of ’81 and ’82 held a dinner party in New York City to celebrate the milestone of their turning 55 in 2014: David Resnick P’13 (and wife Cathy Klema), Jeff Kluger (and wife Jenny), Laurie Jacobs P’12 (and friend, Robert Zorowitz), Jim Bordewick with his wife, Martha McNamara ’83, Amy Horowitz Schorr with her husband, Brian Schorr ’79, Joe Fins ’82 (and wife Amy Ehrlich) and Bart Brebner with his wife, Karen Liepmann ’83. Bart brought with him the Class of 1981 ‘Facebook’ printed in August 1977 and everyone—other than the spouses—agreed that we did not look much different from when we entered Wes!”

And as for me? I keep busy with my various volunteer activities, traveling, and teaching Zumba, which I really love. Our summer took us to Berlin (as usual) and then to the south of France (exceptionally). We happened to be in Nice during the jazz festival—wonderfully serendipitous and great fun! Where else can you sit back, sip champagne and listen to amazing jazz? That’s my kind of festival! All three of our sons are now here in town. Our eldest son, Alex (a software engineer), has returned home to the Midwest after a stint in Seattle working at Microsoft. He is happily ensconced back in Bloomington and gainfully employed in his field, and doing some consulting on the side. Our middle son, James, is a sophomore and studying informatics here at Indiana University, keeping busy with his studies (we hope!), his group house, his music, and his position on the IU Ultimate Frisbee Team. He took a summer class in Germany and apparently very much enjoyed showing the other students around the city of his birth, Berlin—or so it appeared from his Facebook posts! Last but not least, our third son, Christopher, is (maybe?) enjoying his status as “single child” as he enters his junior year in high school. He is a good student and musician (first chair sax in addition to being an accomplished pianist) as well as an athlete (tennis and ultimate Frisbee, whose team he captains); he also volunteers as a chess teacher in a local elementary school. So all in all, life is good!

Please write to me with news of you and yours.

David I. Block | david.I.block@gmail.com

JOANNE godin audretsch | Berlinjo@aol.com

Intern at the Wesleyan Office of Communications for Spring and Summer 2015. Currently working towards meeting the requirements for an Economics and Government dual major. A Wesleyan Posse Veteran.